for me:
Smokes
Instagram link
Tattoos
Piercings
Vegan
Into rap
Dyed hair
Any sociology/psychology major/degree
for me:
Smokes
Instagram link
Tattoos
Piercings
Vegan
Into rap
Dyed hair
Any sociology/psychology major/degree
Whenever they consider something that's very common as somehow unique or a true accomplishment in their bio.
Anything political.
Slick Rick wrote:
Anything political.
Antivaxxer/antimasker
Anti vaxxer & being ugly
Visible ink
Visible fat
Clothing with visible logos
Fake nails
Fake hair
Fake tits
No body shots
No clear head shots
Multiple kids
Teaching career
Art or musical career
Unemployed
I do not use these.
Anything socially excessive
I.e. daddy issues
Resorting to a dating app to find potential romantic partners is a giant red flag, in my opinion.
Tattoos.
Guaranteed sign of a crazy chick.
Any mention of polyamory
Any mention of being an 'empath'
Anything that looks down on other people
Saying they are 'sapiosexual'
Loads of piercings
Saying they are crazy/wild/outrageous/quirky
Reliance on money to have a good time
Talk of having crazy ex or problems with ex
Cats/dogs (am allergic).
-All their pictures are selfies (that means they are fat)
-Their selfies have Snapchat filters on them (that means they are fat and ugly)
"Looking for a relationship not a fling" SWIPE LEFT
Bad pictures/unattractive
Conservative
Liberal who mentions politics
No college degree
Any sort of polyamory/open relationship thing
Overly religious
"Looking for the Jim to my Pam"
I don't use dating apps but:
tattoos
Piercings
Smoking
BLM/pronouns/anything indicating wokeness
Any woman who puts "must be six feet or taller".
Im 6'4", but the height requirement gets on my nerves.
I would love to put "must be under 140 lbs" on my profile, but some fat chick would probably get triggered and my profile would be deleted.
PS online dating is super lame. It is, however, great for getting laid.
* Too many photos of partying
* Photos with other guys, especially a guy who is obviously their ex-boyfriend (Attractive, feminine women always have photos only of themselves or themselves with other women). An obvious exception is if she has a photo with her dad who looks like a nice guy who she respects, a huge plus.
* Too much bio
* Any inlking of strong political or religious views that oppose mine
* Photos look all too manufactured (convenient angles, lighting, filters, etc.)
* Has kids
* Explictly doesn't want kids ("Maybe Someday" option is fine)
* Holds profession in a higher social class (Exceptions could be made based on personality in real life, i.e. how much identity they get from their career)
* Though Divorced is an obvious red flag, I can't use this as a disqualifier because now that I'm in my mid-30s most women around my age are Divorced.
MatthewW wrote:
for me:
Smokes
Instagram link
Tattoos
Piercings
Vegan
Into rap
Dyed hair
Any sociology/psychology major/degree
Pretty good list I just say. I will give a pass to tattoos depending on what and how many, and same with piercings.
I'll add gauged ears, duck facing or artificially plumped lips...but mostly too much dependence on social media. I'm not taking selfies every time we step out of the house nor am I your photographer while you duck face in front of EVERY SINGLE nice looking view.
Vegan
Kids
Tattoos
More than 12 years older
No career
Very hairy
Overweight/unathletic
Too many demands
MatthewW wrote:
for me:
Smokes
Instagram link
Tattoos
Piercings
Vegan
Into rap
Dyed hair
Any sociology/psychology major/degree
I agree with Tattoos, Piercings, Vegans, Rap and Dyed Hair. Smoking is fine, Degree is fine with me as well if they actually graduated from a decent school. I'm also on the lookout for any crazy religious types. Usually they use religion to atone for past and present poor behavior and will continue to do that when they treat you crap...because "it's OK, I'll go to confession for forgiveness" but then berate you on the way home from church for something stupid.
By on the lookout for any girl who "loves kids!!!!", which is code for I'll want a family immediately after tying the knot.
I wish it was easier to screen for gold diggers, but that usually comes out during the first date.
Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
Whenever they consider something that's very common as somehow unique or a true accomplishment in their bio.
Wait? You haven't coupled up with someone yet? Shocking!