What should I say?
What should I say?
Let it snow wrote:
What should I say?
"Sure I will. Like a sister!"
Disregard if you live in Alabama
Will you still love her if she gets fat?
Ask her if shell still love you when youre broke
Disclaimer: I don't think the answer to that question should necessarily be "No". Just helping out the OP, who clearly has made up his mind
"i will still love you, but it's possible I wouldn't be as physically attracted to you."
that is, if that were true.
I told my wife of 7 years now that i wouldn't. I've always been honest and she's still like 60kg after 2 kids. If that doesn't work for you she not worth the effort, i mean that sincerely. An attractive wife who ticks who the right boxes is just barely worth it let alone some fat disrespectful slob.
depends on what you feel. love is an arbitrary and bad word either way. just say you would still like the other things you enjoy about her and being with her (include specifics) but of course you would not feel as much of a physical attraction and physical interaction is an important part of a good relationship.
Let it snow wrote:
What should I say?
Just say yes, of course.
If she then does get fat then she has no self respect and that's the real problem. There will be other issues as a part of that lack of self respect, and you need to probably think moreso about those.
Tom- wrote:
I told my wife of 7 years now that i wouldn't. I've always been honest and she's still like 60kg after 2 kids. If that doesn't work for you she not worth the effort, i mean that sincerely. An attractive wife who ticks who the right boxes is just barely worth it let alone some fat disrespectful slob.
+1
I would say no.
If you let her get fat, you don't love her as much as you should.
"You are fat and I still love you"
Ask for a number. 200 pounds ? 250 pounds ?
You say "But I know you wouldn't get fat" then boop her on the nose. Imagine taking a woman’s comfort test seriously in the current year.
Why would you talk to a fat girl?
This thread is like some sort of backwards incel recruitment. Sexist culture-war troll.
What if OP asks significant other if they will love him if they find out he is a shallow a-hole?
God forbid anyone reads these threads for advice. Truly, God forbid it.
Best answer though: "you mean just your boobs, right?"
Let it snow wrote:
What should I say?
You say, “Of course I’ll still love you if you gain weight.”
Then you follow up with, “Will you still love me if I become fat, bald and poor.”
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Tell her your love for her has an inverse relationship to her weight.
So you are asking us to tell you how to lie?
The right thing here would be to tell her the truth. If she gets fat and you stop loving her, then break up with her.
If you lie to her then she deserves better.