Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declined

Women aren't choosy cause they only want highly attractive men. They're choosy cause women don't want men that are selfish boyfriends/husbands who only care about their own happiness, hobbies, career, life, etc

The reason that most women claim to not be able to find those men is because they're not actually looking for them, they're just not hitting many women's radars it seems. Women want the "whole package" - a guy who's charismatic, high-status, wealthy and knows how to spark attraction who is ALSO the monogomous, selfless, emotionally available, provider. The problem is, what makes a man attractive is also what makes him a bad partner, and most guys are not going to able to balance the two without some work on themselves. Those "whole package" guys who want to commit are going to be in very low supply and only willing to commit to a "whole package" woman.

This is my take as to why so many women claim to not be able to find the men they want and why so many men feel like they're being passed up.

The decline in single men seeking dates in the US could be attributed to shifting societal norms and lifestyles. Many men are prioritizing career advancement and personal goals over dating. Moreover, online dating apps have saturated the market, leading to a paradox of choice and perhaps making it harder to commit. Cultural shifts towards individualism and increased social pressures might also play a role. Additionally, some men may find traditional dating norms challenging to navigate in the digital age. These factors combined could contribute to the observed decline in men actively seeking dates."