boitinboto wrote:
Vows mean nothing anymore. How can someone who initiates divorce exchange vows with anyone else again and have any credibility? Obviously had your fingers crossed behind your back the first time. If your spouse isn't cheating on or physically abusing you, work it out. Live up to your vows. Marriage has its ups and downs, and it can get tough from time to time, but you communicate and help each other. You shouldn't stand up in front of witnesses and make those vows if in the back of your mind you're saying "if she ceases to make ME happy, I'll exchange her for another one." Shallow character. Lying in front of friends and family. Why would they show up for a second wedding? You didn't mean it the first time!
Unbelievable.
She was verbally abusing me and making my life hell. I put my foot down, over and over again to this woman and it would further infuriate her. I attempted to keep my frame. She trashed my family, my friends, my hobbies.
I never said a harsh word to this woman until the very end. Always complimenting her, her friends, her family. Her dad called me the perfect son-in-law.
I encouraged her to seek hobbies and she would never get off the damn couch. I LOVED this woman and she would literally shudder when I leaned over to kiss her cheek.
She got fat while I worked my down to 8% body fat and lifted weights, and pushed away flirty college interns because I was devoted to her.
I made double her salary and put us in a nice, brand new home in the suburbs. I kept up my end.
How am I lacking credibility?
She quit on me, and three months after divorce, she is f*cking a co-worker.
You tell me who the shallow character is...