When I was in college I had a teammate that was friends with Travis Stehman who was one of Dave Smith's athletes when he coached at Oregon. Travis had a twin brother named Trevor who sadly committed suicide and from my understanding Dave Smith gave the guy like 72 hours or some BS to go home and attend his brothers funeral and be back on campus ready to train. If this is true you really cant treat an athlete like that. If I was a coach I would have red-shirted the guy and let him go home and take as much time as he needed. The whole situation with the Stehman brothers is just a mess. Travis committed suicide back in like 2013 or something himself. As a father myself now I could not imagine losing two children twins in that matter both to suicide. For anyone that was in my era late 1990's to early 2000's Travis and Trevor Stehman where both Montana boys Travis was like a Montana high school legend in the time period, and Trevor was decent himself.