C'mon people...need some comfort
C'mon people...need some comfort
Hate to say it, but 0 for 2013 so far.
Saw this item in the news that may be of use to the guys:
Husbands who help out with household chores have less sex than men in so-called "traditional" marriages where housework is done exclusively by the wife, researchers from the USA and Spain reported in the journal American Sociological Review.
0 so far this year
The sad thing is I'm not married =(
21 years & we still get it on like donkey kong, bro'. BUT..there have been some notable slumps. After baby#1, I think she had post partum depression. That was as close as we came to divorce. Rough time.
Been better the last 2-3 years than ever. Wait til your woman is in her mid 40s. They can't get enough. Plus (hopefully), you two are REALLY good at it by then..
45 in January. Slow start but things will hopefully pick up.
My wife is 33 and now says she wants to have a kid after shutting me off for the last 6 years, literally ten times per year. Bad news is that I have been cheating on her for the last 5 months and now my girlfriend might be pregnant. I am going to tell my wife after the girlfriend takes a pregnancy test at the doctor's office. I would never have cheated on her if she could manage 30 times per year. I feel bad because she may never have kids; who is going to want to marry someone averse to sex?
Get some wrote:
My wife is 33 and now says she wants to have a kid after shutting me off for the last 6 years, literally ten times per year.
Why on earth did you stick around? I left my wife after just 3 years because she shut me off three months into our marriage (she had major depression/personal issues and had no sex drive either). All of sudden she wanted kids after neglecting me. You should have taken a stand and left after a year of that BS.
Get some wrote:
Bad news is that I have been cheating on her for the last 5 months and now my girlfriend might be pregnant.
WTF. How did you manage a girlfriend and wife? I didn't even have time to eat between work, training, and dealing with my then wife. You didn't wear a rubber? I'm sorry...but you dug your own grave here.
My wife is a nurse who often works night shift and I met my girlfriend in my running club. We were drunk at a new years party and did not have a condom so stupid things happen.
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were drunk at a new years party and did not have a condom so stupid things happen to stupid people.
Corrected.
Carry on.
I am so grateful for this thread. Every time I start to get the feels for a girl that I'm casually dating, I think back to these stories and I'm reminded how miserable relationships can be. So thank you, miserable strangers.
Also, for the guys that resorted to cheating due to lack of sex......
http://bwaff.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/i-know-that-feel-bro.jpg
I am starting to think positive. If my wife were pregnant then I would never have sex again and face the possibility of both child support and alimony. At least my new girlfriend enjoys sex even though she is not as attractive as my wife, a hot body means nothing if you can't touch it.
Note to other guys: if a girl can stay a virgin until she is 27 then there is something wrong with her libido. All the pre marriage oral wiill end too.
Also, hormonal birth control is showing to lower women's libidos for years.
Btw, I don't care about grammar on a message board.
Get some wrote:
I am going to tell my wife after the girlfriend takes a pregnancy test at the doctor's office.
Don't tell her about the affair at all. Just tell her you want a divorce and heres why. If you tell her that not only did you cheat on her you got the girl pregnant she will have so much rage and hatred for you that she will make your divorce a long drawn out and horrible process. Make your divorce amicable and just tell her that you don't want to be with her anymore. She will find out eventually but hopefully you will be clear of the divorce by then.
Yeah...just push it down the road some...that always works...she probably won't find out at the most inconvenient improbable time for you.
The academic Hobo wrote:
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Don't tell her about the affair at all. Just tell her you want a divorce and heres why. If you tell her that not only did you cheat on her you got the girl pregnant she will have so much rage and hatred for you that she will make your divorce a long drawn out and horrible process. Make your divorce amicable and just tell her that you don't want to be with her anymore. She will find out eventually but hopefully you will be clear of the divorce by then.[/quote]
wife 47
5 x for 2013
For some odd reason, got wife got wierd on me. "Attacked me" out of the shower gave me a professional bj, no drop wasted (1st time ever) and that was it. No explanation, nothing said??????
Not complaining or anything
Get some wrote:
My wife is 33 and now says she wants to have a kid after shutting me off for the last 6 years, literally ten times per year. Bad news is that I have been cheating on her for the last 5 months and now my girlfriend might be pregnant. I am going to tell my wife after the girlfriend takes a pregnancy test at the doctor's office. I would never have cheated on her if she could manage 30 times per year. I feel bad because she may never have kids; who is going to want to marry someone averse to sex?
The poor sucker isn't going to know she's adverse to sex until it's too late...just like you. She'll lure him in with some, get pregnant and that'll be the last time she ever has sex...until she decides she wants another kid.
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wife 47
5 x for 2013
For some odd reason, got wife got wierd on me. "Attacked me" out of the shower gave me a professional bj, no drop wasted (1st time ever) and that was it. No explanation, nothing said??????
Not complaining or anything
Wow man, that is awesome. Hope you said thanks. My wife has been really making an effort as well, she came to me recently and asked if I'd noticed that she's holding herself to an "every 48 hours" rule. It's not always riled-up exciting stuff, but certainly satisfying and nice of her to initiate.
I'm no one to give advice, but if your wife shows her love by doing something like that you should honor her. My wife needs affection and I don't always feel affectionate. So I'm trying to show affection anyway, and I think that kind of equates to what she's doing for me.
fidelitas wrote:
I'm no one to give advice, but if your wife shows her love by doing something like that you should honor her. My wife needs affection and I don't always feel affectionate. So I'm trying to show affection anyway, and I think that kind of equates to what she's doing for me.
Figured that out all by yourself did you? Good god, men seem to have the IQs of six year-olds when it comes to understanding people!
Dude that was a guilt blowie......Check her cell phone she is likely hammering a younger dude and is just practicing on you to get back up to speed in the sack.JK-I am jealous
oooOO wrote:
wife 47
5 x for 2013
For some odd reason, got wife got wierd on me. "Attacked me" out of the shower gave me a professional bj, no drop wasted (1st time ever) and that was it. No explanation, nothing said??????
Not complaining or anything
