RE: I have a crush on a girl that works at a coffee shop.

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You're done with school by the the third week of April? How early do you start? Any spring break?

Make sure you recite the words over and over in your head so you can deliver them without any intonation or emotion in your voice. Irrespective of whether she says yes or no, keep your cool. Girls love stoic men.

We started on January 4th, and yes we had a spring break. I know that is super early. I also wanted to say I have no problems with the poster 'girl probs in college'. He is not scared me at all as some posters seem to think. I like his stories and commentary.

I know you are "stuck with match.com", but how do you like match.com? Worth the money?

No it is definitely not worh the money. The reason most girls on there are in their mid twenties. I am 22, so girls in there mid twenties aren't generally looking for a 22 year old college guy. Also the only way to send emails is if you have a subscription. The cost isn't that much, I think its like 15/month. If you send an email and the person doesn't respond then you don't know whether its because they don't like or if they don't have a subscription. I had one conversation going with a "model". She claimed she did some modeling work, I was really happy because she was super cute and all. Then when I asked her about her modeling career she never responded. The point of my story, most girls in online aren't great converationalists and for no apparent reason will stop talking to you. I've had several girls just stop talking to me. Its very sad sometimes.

stuck with match.com wrote:

I've had several girls just stop talking to me. Its very sad sometimes.

This happens all the time on these sites. Don't sweat it. Go to more parties. Or to class. There are girls at both these places you can talk to. Or you can walk around with a Bluetooth in your ear, talking to yourself. Crazy is a turn-on to some girls.

I used eHarmony and then cancelled it when i found out my 5 matches were all obese

this was my reaction

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QOQTEfIZz8

[quote]CCC tripling Css wrote:

I used eHarmony and then cancelled it when i found out my 5 matches were all obese

this was my reaction

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QOQTEfIZz8

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We divorced about 15 years ago and it seems we both filled out profiles. eharmony matched me with my ex with a pretty high number I think,so their underlying program has some merit as it pointed me to someone that reallife history tells me I would be strongly attracted to.

btw if it were not for the childbearing isuse that split us we would still be married

be honest and tell her you like her. if she's a nice girl, a rejection wouldn't be awkward anyway. you'd still have her as a friend. if it becomes awkward, she may not be a nice and you can do better. don't sit around with a "what if". I didn't and never would!

Mrs. M wrote:

stuck with match.com wrote:

I've had several girls just stop talking to me. Its very sad sometimes.

This happens all the time on these sites. Don't sweat it. Go to more parties. Or to class. There are girls at both these places you can talk to. Or you can walk around with a Bluetooth in your ear, talking to yourself. Crazy is a turn-on to some girls.

I understand but if you talk to somebody for two months, emailing each other every day with long thoughtful conversations and then they suddenly stop talking to you, thats a little harsh.

stuck with match.com wrote:

I talked to her today very briefly. I came too late for coffee, they were about to close down. She seemed pretty excited when I walked in. I think I found her facebook, but I'm not sure. If I have the right one it doesn't if shes single or not the answer is blank. What does that mean?

It means she has a FWB and likes to flirt with a lot of other guys.

Mrs. M wrote:

You're done with school by the the third week of April? How early do you start? Any spring break?

What do you care?

chickie down give it pants wrote:

my gf and her sister went to an all girsl hs and we met for breakfast everyday. at the diner there was a cute waitress. my gf always said stop flerting with her. I was not I am just nice to everyone so 15 years later I am in a bar and start talking to a chick who has one of those faces you know you have seen before but can not quite remember the context anywho she mentions my old nabe and it clicks this is that waitress so I pop out did you work at so&so diner and she says yes are you the guy who always met two gals for breakfest long story short she was a lousy lay

moral of the story If you wait 15 years to fcuk a waitress

you will be disappointed.

j

Now this is the gem I skimmed five pages of shit for. Well done sir.

As for the two losers pining for women on this thread, I'd imagine you're pretty much f'd. You dudes need to chill out, the tension and anxiety is all over your posts for crissakes. Chicks don't dig that shit. Nobody digs that shit.

stuck with match.com wrote:

I understand but if you talk to somebody for two months, emailing each other every day with long thoughtful conversations and then they suddenly stop talking to you, thats a little harsh.

Agreed, but if you've never met face-to-face and had any of those meaningful conversations, it makes you two about as connected as it makes the two of us on a message board.

Mrs. M wrote:

stuck with match.com wrote:

I understand but if you talk to somebody for two months, emailing each other every day with long thoughtful conversations and then they suddenly stop talking to you, thats a little harsh.

Agreed, but if you've never met face-to-face and had any of those meaningful conversations, it makes you two about as connected as it makes the two of us on a message board.

I understand, but say you were talking to somebody and you had a very very long conversation with somebody. Would you just randomly leave them because they said something you didn't like?

stuck with match.com wrote:

I have a crush on this girl that works at a coffee shop. I go to this coffee shop everyday and get the same thing. So She often knows what I want even before I ask for it. Every time I go in we talk a little bit. I believe there is a little chemistry between us. How can I show her that I am interested. Also if she rejects me will it be weird because she makes coffee for me everyday.

Hey man, I did her already. Her pussy stinks to high heaven and now I have this cheesy/mayonnaise like substance coming out of my wang.

I'm gonna try to be friends with her on facebook first before I do anything. I'll casually play it off like, so are you on facebook or something like that. I would say we're good enough friends to be friends on facebook

Don't do this. Go with the date idea first. Facebook dating is chicken and she will put you in the friend category.