black runner wrote:
I always see you use the rationale that discussion on the board is “just what you might talk about on a long run.”
Have you ever been on a long run with a black person and turned to them and said, “hey, do you think black people are less intelligent and that’s why they commit more crimes?” Or “do you think black fathers abandon their families and that’s why black people are violent,” or “Hey! Black Lives Matter are terrorists, right?” Because these are all topics that have been on this board and repeatedly appear in posts and threads.
I don’t think you would ever dare say this things on a run to a black person. Besides it being so far beyond the bounds of civility, I think you and every other white bro on this board would be scared of what would happen. I dare you in actual life to walk up to a group of black people and “just start an interesting conversation” about whether they’re animals. You would never.
So if you know it’s wrong in person then why is it fine on a message board? If you wouldn’t dare say it to a black person’s face on this mythical long run, what makes it cool and not cowardly and disgusting to foster spaces where people feel comfortable saying these things?
Nobody can stop you saying it, but your pretence that this is just idle conversation like people have all the time on runs either shows that you hang out with some seriously disturbing people in person, or that you simply refuse any responsibility for what you actually condone being said. And then accept that black people are not being unreasonable or sensitive or ridiculous to not enjoy being called unintelligent primitives.
I absolutely support the expectations stated above, and have thought the very same things on this site many times. Thank you for articulating it,
And I would extend that to include any of a number of groups including women, ethnic minorities, the LGBT communitty, etc.,
Simply said, the site should be a place that each of these groups feels comfortable visiting, rather than one where they frequently feel they are being derided or demeaned. And I can say that from my experience, the latter is too often the case. And it should not be that way.