Want my girlfriend to get an IUD but she doesn't want to

um i can't tell but is this a joke? because it is otherwise insane. and i think, some people might, maybe, laugh, but also take it seriously

Know that this is the best possible birth control, especially for the man.

Huh? Only "incredibly painful" if the doctor is incompetent.

(I say this having placed many, many IUDs.)

take the condom off at the end and bust on her face. Either she'll love it or she'll get an IUD

Bonus pints if you don't tell her you'll paint her face beforehand

Go to therapy. You're not ready for a relationship.

Literally every other post in this thread is so braindead it reminds me why we have problems in society.

Either:

A. Try condoms

B. Get a vastecomy, usually reversible if you change your mind and painfree, however IUDs are not as painfree.

Oh brother, hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you’re either throwing a hot dog down a hall way or working with a tic tac if you or her are never noticing it. Definitely is uncomfortable for the women or even the man at times.

I hear you brother.

Al Gore to Dan Quayle: "A woman has the right to chose."

Now I know ol' Al is a bleeding heart liberal, prolly a commie, but I agree with him on this one.

A vasectomy is not always reversible, so OP risks infertility.

Several reasons. Some I mentioned above. A few more:

1) I first tried birth control pills before I had children. At that time (1990s), IUD's were highly discouraged in women without children, due to perceived risk of intrauterine infections (pelvic inflammatory disease) and resultant infertility. In the years since that time, the thinking around this has changed, and now IUD's are more commonplace in nulliparous women.

2) It is pretty easy to try a birth control pill and then just stop it if the side effects are bothersome. More difficult to have the in-office procedure to put in an IUD, and then if you don't like it, you have to wait weeks/months for another procedure to remove it.