Maybe I'm just poor wrote:
hey now wrote:[quote]momjeans wrote:
Trust your instincts, I guess, but 150k isn't that much
Huh???? Since when?
150k is on the boderline of upper middle and middle class. it's respectable, especially for a 28 year old, but it's not extraordinary or impressive and certainly doesn't give you access to gold-diggers.
I thought the OP was cute for thinking it was, though.
Good times are killing me wrote:
Story doesn't add up. 150k a year is decent money but you said she is extremely hot. Sounds like if she was in it for the money she could do better.
You are forgetting that he's also a runner. It's common knowledge that extremely hot women are naturally attracted to runners. Couple that with a comfortable income and you've got an irresistible package.
Pre nup?
$150k a year is a lot of money in some places. Not in major cities, but if you are pulling $150k a year in say Toledo ohio, you are doing very well. You might not be the richest guy in town, but you will be doing significantly better than the vast majority of guys she is likely to meet.
That's the price to pay for a hot girl. You want a female version of you? Then you better learn to love her other qualities. That's what often the fat chicks say...
OP, the correct answer is don't marry her and stop being so p-ussy whipped.
RealBBer wrote:
Maybe I'm just poor wrote:Huh???? Since when?
150k is on the boderline of upper middle and middle class. it's respectable, especially for a 28 year old, but it's not extraordinary or impressive and certainly doesn't give you access to gold-diggers.
I thought the OP was cute for thinking it was, though.
You are an absolute moron. I think that's pretty cute though.
Some gold-diggers think they can get mansions in Beverly Hills. Some think a relative youngster at $150k is a catch.
But like I said, you thinking that there is one absolute standard for gold-diggers was pretty cute and moronic.
Confused 28 year old wrote:
It has become increasingly evident to me over the past year of us dating that she is just in this for my money. First she is extremely hot and I am a pretty average looking guy working as a petroleum engineer making 150k a year. I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. We have a date planned for the wedding but I'm pretty sure she will pull the plug within 2-3 years to get half. Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?
What are you complaining about? You're loaded and got a hot gal. You probably can get a lot of hot gals...they mostly go for guys who are loaded. A guy can be average looking, not in shape, kinda goofy, etc...but if you're loaded, the gals will appear from nowhere. And if you're a handsome hunk who's loaded then you get the cream of the crop with hot gals...the movie star looking chicks - the one's that turn heads. It's all about the $$$ these days with the vast majority of women.😕
You should be thrilled with your deal. I'm a average looking dude who's in great shape, but live in a dump, drive a 20 yr old car, wear sweats, and I can't get an old bag to give me the time day! 😩
Be grateful you're loaded...and enjoy those hot gals!ðŸ‘
Well Than wrote:
RealBBer wrote:150k is on the boderline of upper middle and middle class. it's respectable, especially for a 28 year old, but it's not extraordinary or impressive and certainly doesn't give you access to gold-diggers.
I thought the OP was cute for thinking it was, though.
You are an absolute moron. I think that's pretty cute though.
Some gold-diggers think they can get mansions in Beverly Hills. Some think a relative youngster at $150k is a catch.
But like I said, you thinking that there is one absolute standard for gold-diggers was pretty cute and moronic.
You sound like a total loser prole who associates exclusively with low-class women. Not cute.
You guys are ridiculously out of touch if you think 150k isn't a ton of money. That's 3 times the household median income. It's especially impressive for a 28 year old.
Anyway OP don't get married.
bort wrote:
That's pretty funny how you think this amazing sex will continue after the marriage. She's knows exactly what she's doing. Don't be another broke and bitter divorce statistic.
Right answer. It's over.
WTF are you doing spending 50k?? You should be living like a college student until the first million is in the bank.
You got some work to do. You've made some bad decisions despite the hot GF.
RealBBer wrote:
Well Than wrote:You are an absolute moron. I think that's pretty cute though.
Some gold-diggers think they can get mansions in Beverly Hills. Some think a relative youngster at $150k is a catch.
But like I said, you thinking that there is one absolute standard for gold-diggers was pretty cute and moronic.
You sound like a total loser prole who associates exclusively with low-class women. Not cute.
Since it has been firmly established that you are a complete and absolute moron, how things "sound" to you is completely and absolutely meaningless.
But thanks for playing, moron.
Confused 28 year old wrote:
It has become increasingly evident to me over the past year of us dating that she is just in this for my money. First she is extremely hot and I am a pretty average looking guy working as a petroleum engineer making 150k a year. I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. We have a date planned for the wedding but I'm pretty sure she will pull the plug within 2-3 years to get half. Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?
If she's that hot and a gold digger she wouldn't be going after someone making $150k. Unless she's also retarded.
You are an engineer so do some math. What is she going to get after 3 years?
I would gold dig for 150k if I lived in someplace like the Midwest (except Chicago). That can take you far where the cost of living is cheap. Just saying.
Stop spending money on her.
Go ahead with the wedding and having hot sex.
Be sure to get a prenup first, and then see what happens.
TAA wrote:
You guys are ridiculously out of touch if you think 150k isn't a ton of money. That's 3 times the household median income. It's especially impressive for a 28 year old.
Anyway OP don't get married.
I agree...that guy's loaded for 28 yrs old. 😊. Gals love guys that are loaded. If you ever see a poor dude with a hot girl - they're probably actors filming a movie scene 😂
Confused 28 year old wrote:
Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?
Your assumption that you lack options is false.
150k is also three times the average salary for 25-34 year olds (I'm actually surprised that they average 50k!). That's pretty high up in the percentile.
Confused 28 year old wrote:
It has become increasingly evident to me over the past year of us dating that she is just in this for my money. First she is extremely hot and I am a pretty average looking guy working as a petroleum engineer making 150k a year. I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. We have a date planned for the wedding but I'm pretty sure she will pull the plug within 2-3 years to get half. Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?
Trust your gut, not your dick. And quit spending money on gifts and social events etc. See what happens when you dial back on that.
2/10 - didn't think I'd be wishing for another marathon cheater thread but I think one is needed now