I'm a guy. Mid 30s, 5'11, fit, income about $110,000/year, get told often I am handsome. I have gone out on more than 100 first dates in my life. Finding a woman who is faithful, level-headed, agreeable, and without major baggage (children, mental illness) seems to be damn hear impossible. For the first time in my life I am starting to think marriage and kids really might just not be possible, or I might have to go abroad, something I always thought was crazy before.
Anyone else experiencing this? Dating seems like such a disaster these days.
I'm around your age and income level (slightly higher) but married (knew my wife since before college).
Most of the guys I know or work with who are your age are still single and dealing with the same problems.
The fact is feminism has ruined an entire generation of women.
High body counts, career oriented, over medicated (seems like every woman is on a SSRI or an alcoholic) and obsessed with social media. Most women are miserable to be around now.
Social media cooked the dating game and I'm glad I got married. Best of luck.
Feminism means the guy doesn’t have to bust his butt to provide for the whole family. The woman can help out by working a good job with a good salary if that’s what they decide as a partnership.
So men can have high body counts but women can’t? No wonder everyone on here is single or married to an immigrant who doesn’t know any better.
If you earn $110k you are making more than 75% of the US though. How is that bad?
The guy shared his salary willingly as he thought it was impressive. It isn’t, especially if he resides in a town or city with HCOL. He deserves to get hammered for it.
He goes on 100 first dates and hasn’t gotten the message that maybe *he* is the problem.
I'm a guy. Mid 30s, 5'11, fit, income about $110,000/year, get told often I am handsome. I have gone out on more than 100 first dates in my life. Finding a woman who is faithful, level-headed, agreeable, and without major baggage (children, mental illness) seems to be damn hear impossible. For the first time in my life I am starting to think marriage and kids really might just not be possible, or I might have to go abroad, something I always thought was crazy before.
Anyone else experiencing this? Dating seems like such a disaster these days.
5'11"???
I hear there has been remarkable progress in leg extension surgery.
Not that I would know. 6'4" and swimming in women.
I'm around your age and income level (slightly higher) but married (knew my wife since before college).
Most of the guys I know or work with who are your age are still single and dealing with the same problems.
The fact is feminism has ruined an entire generation of women.
High body counts, career oriented, over medicated (seems like every woman is on a SSRI or an alcoholic) and obsessed with social media. Most women are miserable to be around now.
Social media cooked the dating game and I'm glad I got married. Best of luck.
Feminism means the guy doesn’t have to bust his butt to provide for the whole family. The woman can help out by working a good job with a good salary if that’s what they decide as a partnership.
So men can have high body counts but women can’t? No wonder everyone on here is single or married to an immigrant who doesn’t know any better.
Women want to get married and have kids today. The difference is there is an expectation that men help or be a little more empathetic to their challenges raising children. For some reason this is emasculating for today’s men.
If you earn $110k you are making more than 75% of the US though. How is that bad?
The guy shared his salary willingly as he thought it was impressive. It isn’t, especially if he resides in a town or city with HCOL. He deserves to get hammered for it.
He goes on 100 first dates and hasn’t gotten the message that maybe *he* is the problem.
It's 80th percentile for individuals in the US. It's funny to me that people here are acting like it's embarrassing or something when literally half of the US makes half that amount.
Marriage and kids? How about just connecting with someone and seeing where it goes? You’re terrifying perfectly good women with the notion that you want to put them in some neat little box that you think is your life, instead of viewing them as human beings.
If you just want the wifey and 2.5 kids, then go abroad. And then have fun when they discard you when they’re done getting what they want, your meager net worth. $110k a year is not a flex.
The end goal for most people is marriage and kids. That is about the most normal thing a person could say, and you find issue with it?
Also, the median HOUSEHOLD income in the US is about $82,000/year. I'm not sure why people think being significantly above average bad.
Are you new here? Regulars here make at least $200-300k a year, and you have to make more if you’re ugly.
Anwyay, you should provide an example of what happened on one of these 100 dates so we can see what went wrong. Your original post is just too vague and reads like all the other complainy posts here.
The guy shared his salary willingly as he thought it was impressive. It isn’t, especially if he resides in a town or city with HCOL. He deserves to get hammered for it.
He goes on 100 first dates and hasn’t gotten the message that maybe *he* is the problem.
It's 80th percentile for individuals in the US. It's funny to me that people here are acting like it's embarrassing or something when literally half of the US makes half that amount.
Most people here are college educated. I assume you are too. This is low for college educated. The average or media includes people who work in retail and other menial jobs.
I'm a guy. Mid 30s, 5'11, fit, income about $110,000/year, get told often I am handsome. I have gone out on more than 100 first dates in my life. Finding a woman who is faithful, level-headed, agreeable, and without major baggage (children, mental illness) seems to be damn hear impossible. For the first time in my life I am starting to think marriage and kids really might just not be possible, or I might have to go abroad, something I always thought was crazy before.
So you're saying you have dated 100+ women and they all were losers? That really seems against the odds. You're looking in the wrong places or you have something going on (like a repellent personality) that you didn't include include in your question.
I'm a guy. Mid 30s, 5'11, fit, income about $110,000/year, get told often I am handsome. I have gone out on more than 100 first dates in my life. Finding a woman who is faithful, level-headed, agreeable, and without major baggage (children, mental illness) seems to be damn hear impossible. For the first time in my life I am starting to think marriage and kids really might just not be possible, or I might have to go abroad, something I always thought was crazy before.
Anyone else experiencing this? Dating seems like such a disaster these days.
I'm around your age and income level (slightly higher) but married (knew my wife since before college).
Most of the guys I know or work with who are your age are still single and dealing with the same problems.
The fact is feminism has ruined an entire generation of women.
High body counts, career oriented, over medicated (seems like every woman is on a SSRI or an alcoholic) and obsessed with social media. Most women are miserable to be around now.
Social media cooked the dating game and I'm glad I got married. Best of luck.
High body counts? This guy who posted has had 100 first dates and if he’s doing something right, he’s banging at least half of them. Double standard much?
I'm a guy. Mid 30s, 5'11, fit, income about $110,000/year, get told often I am handsome. I have gone out on more than 100 first dates in my life. Finding a woman who is faithful, level-headed, agreeable, and without major baggage (children, mental illness) seems to be damn hear impossible. For the first time in my life I am starting to think marriage and kids really might just not be possible, or I might have to go abroad, something I always thought was crazy before.
Anyone else experiencing this? Dating seems like such a disaster these days.
How are you getting these dates? Online, though friends, work? Apps are terrible. Meet people IRL.
These posts have given me a lot to think about, thank you for that.
Part of the problem with the "100 first dates" is that though I like a conventionally attractive women, I'm often attracted to more masculine, tomboy style women. They can be hard to find. In fact, during a trip to Thailand, I often found myself attracted to ladybois without even realizing they were men.
I'm around your age and income level (slightly higher) but married (knew my wife since before college).
Most of the guys I know or work with who are your age are still single and dealing with the same problems.
The fact is feminism has ruined an entire generation of women.
High body counts, career oriented, over medicated (seems like every woman is on a SSRI or an alcoholic) and obsessed with social media. Most women are miserable to be around now.
Social media cooked the dating game and I'm glad I got married. Best of luck.
Feminism means the guy doesn’t have to bust his butt to provide for the whole family. The woman can help out by working a good job with a good salary if that’s what they decide as a partnership.
So men can have high body counts but women can’t? No wonder everyone on here is single or married to an immigrant who doesn’t know any better.
It's a double standard but it's biology. If a man sleeps with a lot of women than he's a chad. If a woman sleeps with a lot of men then she's a whore. It is what it is
These posts have given me a lot to think about, thank you for that.
Part of the problem with the "100 first dates" is that though I like a conventionally attractive women, I'm often attracted to more masculine, tomboy style women. They can be hard to find. In fact, during a trip to Thailand, I often found myself attracted to ladybois without even realizing they were men.
These posts have given me a lot to think about, thank you for that.
Part of the problem with the "100 first dates" is that though I like a conventionally attractive women, I'm often attracted to more masculine, tomboy style women. They can be hard to find. In fact, during a trip to Thailand, I often found myself attracted to ladybois without even realizing they were men.
These posts have given me a lot to think about, thank you for that.
Part of the problem with the "100 first dates" is that though I like a conventionally attractive women, I'm often attracted to more masculine, tomboy style women. They can be hard to find. In fact, during a trip to Thailand, I often found myself attracted to ladybois without even realizing they were men.
Look who didn't register his name
Unregistered names can only be used from a single device. Try it, you'll see.
These posts have given me a lot to think about, thank you for that.
Part of the problem with the "100 first dates" is that though I like a conventionally attractive women, I'm often attracted to more masculine, tomboy style women. They can be hard to find. In fact, during a trip to Thailand, I often found myself attracted to ladybois without even realizing they were men.
So you’re gay. Thanks for wasting our time.
Not gay necessarily. Try trans. Best of both worlds.