You're right that you can do what you can as you age to keep it together and not become past it but the main advantage for an older guy is personality - intelligence, humour and empathy based on life experience. Being comfortable with yourself is part of it. You are unlikely to be chosen for your looks. Then there is still something we simply call 'X' factor.
Of course I could be speaking entirely theoretically, as nothing anyone says here can be proven to be real. Take it as you will.
No one thought that my to GF's and I looked odd together. Of course they knew I was older but not like a rich old man with a hot young trophy girl.
started a new career in finance, larger deals, we'll see if we can nail one, and if that happens, another.
fitness spa and elite guided supplement program first
with the extra cash, i have nephews, maid, friends nieces, siblings, kids, aunties, some can use a mortgage helper, holiday, meds, etc.
it's been a year full of loss, financial and people, and nonsense, so we get down from time to time. never was much into depression, but understand it a bit by now.
that aside, it is exciting
very curious what this beautiful and truly silly world has to offer.
and the end of the line, can see it.
when i'm done, i want the right recreational drugs, i've never done them, except acid one time, i'll be visiting the real good stuff, and my nurse, she can decide when she's sick of me, and give me too much, and off to the next dimension we go.
My personal experience is that 60 yr old women are not sexually attractive, young women are. I don't think I'm going out on some big limb stating this fact.
Your personal experience that you refer to is what you say is the cause of ED.
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He meets women and dates them but it never lasts beyond a couple months.
That's the way to do it, big W for him. GF or roster only, no marriage. If you're poor then you probably have to bite the bullet (dual income, taxes. etc.) but for men of means, like me, there's nothing in it for us.
I don't mind answering and I promise I'm being honest:
I'm not loaded- I'm comfortable and own a modest house.
I'm 5'7 and 140 lbs.
I've been told I'm very good looking but that's subjective.
I've only spoken about two women and it fit the conversation.
In one case:
She was 27 and I was 59. Not fit but very hott. Red head and a local model. She was wild, to say the least, and asked me out because she said she had a fantasy about old men in my profession (education). I looked younger than my age so she went for it.
In another case, she's pretty and very fit. We were friends in the running community for about a year before we casually met out for a drink, just the two of us.
We had a lot in common, she doesn't go out typically on weekends, she's single and we lasted 4 months.
In both cases they said that "men" their age were too coddled by their mothers and weren't "gentlemen" or "men" but were more like middle school boys.
The latest one (who I'll admit I love dearly but we're not together but still friends) said things she liked about me (that made me a man in her eyes) are:
I'm consistent- opening doors, etc, those typically gentleman things. I didn't stop after the first couple dates, I continued even now after our relationship ended.
Flowers- as simple as that seems- I didn't just go to store and buy a dozen roses.
I went to a real florist and I bought an arrangement that fit HER and her house. I waited for a special occasion. In one case I had a very special bouquet waiting in a hotel room then brought flowers on special occasions just for that vase.
I'm not a body builder at all but I have a toned body. If I had to compare to someone I'd something like Nick Symmonds or maybe some other 800 meter type.
But- a lot of has to do with what they perceive as your personality (in adult women it's typically NOT how muscular you are.
They both told me that I give off an air of confidence but not arrogance.
Thank you for asking and I didn't think that anyone recognized me on here.
Thanks for the response. When you mentioned the one girl "not fit but very hot"...isn't that an oxymoron?
Anyway: Wow!...I guess I'm both shocked & impressed! A modest lifestyle & short statue with a slight build, and getting with attractive women half your age. A double WOW! 😯
I'm on the short side at 5'6" & weigh about 175 lbs (maybe 18-20% BF). When I was competing 30 yrs ago, I was 200 lbs in the off-season & got down to 180 shredded for competitions.
I definitely have a different body type than you do & maybe that's why it's not attractive to most women? (I get far more compliments on my physique from guys at the gym than from women. Lol).
Like you, I'm far from loaded & live a modest lifestyle (comfortable townhouse, inexpensive SUV, some discretionary income at the end of month -- far from some of the wealthier senior men that brag on this forum. Lol).
I have no idea where I fit into the looks dept at my age. I have most of my hair. I've had mixed feedback with some people saying I look "50"while others say I look my age if not slight older. Go figure. What I do know is that I'm no Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. Lol (but who really is at our age?).
A good ladyfriend of mine at the gym (50 yr bodybuilder) thinks it's my lack of height & lack of wealth that's killing me with younger women. Maybe...I don't know but I'm not getting interest from young, hot women like you are. Lol (it's mostly old & decrepit women in their 60s & 70s that chase me - especially on the dating apps 😖).
As I said, when it comes to men 60 plus getting with young, hot women it's usually good looks & a jacked body with $. I mentioned Dolph Lundgren -- 6'5" jacked & worth $18m engaged to mid-20s super hottie. Check this out & see for yourself:
Final thought: You have simply beaten the game getting hot, younger women given your modest lifestyle & lack of height. My congratulations! 👍
Thanks- hot but not fit- she was thin but not at all healthy. Wild lifestyle and drank way too much. 5 years later- she's approaching obese and has gone from job to job. Sad story.
Honestly, I think as most women approach their 30's they "grow up" where men are concerned.
Example- we have this informal run group where we go out after our weekly run.
One guy occasionally shows up who is more into power lifting and is very well built.
The woman I dated isn't impressed. She sees it as all for show and not to be fit and healthy.
But she did tell me that she liked my quiet confidence. She thinks I'm good looking but she said it was the way I acted when the group was out.
I wasn't putting on airs, I wasn't trying to talk over others, I wasn't trying to "out do" other "men".
This is interesting- She LOVES that I don't drive a pick up truck (that's big around here and some guys think it's manly. I would rather spend my Sundays with her doing anything and not watching "my football game" yelling at the TV drinking beer and eating wings just to show what an alpha male I am.
I've learned that this turns more adult women off than moist guys think.
Yes, that's what I mean. Honestly, most people tell me I look early/mid 40's. I was lucky with the genetic lottery and lucky that I fell in love with running at the age of 12.
As much as I hated getting ID'd at 24 I look back and I'm thankful.
Thanks for the response. When you mentioned the one girl "not fit but very hot"...isn't that an oxymoron?
Anyway: Wow!...I guess I'm both shocked & impressed! A modest lifestyle & short statue with a slight build, and getting with attractive women half your age. A double WOW! 😯
I'm on the short side at 5'6" & weigh about 175 lbs (maybe 18-20% BF). When I was competing 30 yrs ago, I was 200 lbs in the off-season & got down to 180 shredded for competitions.
I definitely have a different body type than you do & maybe that's why it's not attractive to most women? (I get far more compliments on my physique from guys at the gym than from women. Lol).
Like you, I'm far from loaded & live a modest lifestyle (comfortable townhouse, inexpensive SUV, some discretionary income at the end of month -- far from some of the wealthier senior men that brag on this forum. Lol).
I have no idea where I fit into the looks dept at my age. I have most of my hair. I've had mixed feedback with some people saying I look "50"while others say I look my age if not slight older. Go figure. What I do know is that I'm no Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. Lol (but who really is at our age?).
A good ladyfriend of mine at the gym (50 yr bodybuilder) thinks it's my lack of height & lack of wealth that's killing me with younger women. Maybe...I don't know but I'm not getting interest from young, hot women like you are. Lol (it's mostly old & decrepit women in their 60s & 70s that chase me - especially on the dating apps 😖).
As I said, when it comes to men 60 plus getting with young, hot women it's usually good looks & a jacked body with $. I mentioned Dolph Lundgren -- 6'5" jacked & worth $18m engaged to mid-20s super hottie. Check this out & see for yourself:
Final thought: You have simply beaten the game getting hot, younger women given your modest lifestyle & lack of height. My congratulations! 👍
Thanks- hot but not fit- she was thin but not at all healthy. Wild lifestyle and drank way too much. 5 years later- she's approaching obese and has gone from job to job. Sad story.
Honestly, I think as most women approach their 30's they "grow up" where men are concerned.
Example- we have this informal run group where we go out after our weekly run.
One guy occasionally shows up who is more into power lifting and is very well built.
The woman I dated isn't impressed. She sees it as all for show and not to be fit and healthy.
But she did tell me that she liked my quiet confidence. She thinks I'm good looking but she said it was the way I acted when the group was out.
I wasn't putting on airs, I wasn't trying to talk over others, I wasn't trying to "out do" other "men".
This is interesting- She LOVES that I don't drive a pick up truck (that's big around here and some guys think it's manly. I would rather spend my Sundays with her doing anything and not watching "my football game" yelling at the TV drinking beer and eating wings just to show what an alpha male I am.
I've learned that this turns more adult women off than moist guys think.
As far as my looks- a young woman (in her mid 20's) said- "You look like the father in season 2 of the White Lotus but in a good way".
Thanks for the response. When you mentioned the one girl "not fit but very hot"...isn't that an oxymoron?
Anyway: Wow!...I guess I'm both shocked & impressed! A modest lifestyle & short statue with a slight build, and getting with attractive women half your age. A double WOW! 😯
I'm on the short side at 5'6" & weigh about 175 lbs (maybe 18-20% BF). When I was competing 30 yrs ago, I was 200 lbs in the off-season & got down to 180 shredded for competitions.
I definitely have a different body type than you do & maybe that's why it's not attractive to most women? (I get far more compliments on my physique from guys at the gym than from women. Lol).
Like you, I'm far from loaded & live a modest lifestyle (comfortable townhouse, inexpensive SUV, some discretionary income at the end of month -- far from some of the wealthier senior men that brag on this forum. Lol).
I have no idea where I fit into the looks dept at my age. I have most of my hair. I've had mixed feedback with some people saying I look "50"while others say I look my age if not slight older. Go figure. What I do know is that I'm no Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. Lol (but who really is at our age?).
A good ladyfriend of mine at the gym (50 yr bodybuilder) thinks it's my lack of height & lack of wealth that's killing me with younger women. Maybe...I don't know but I'm not getting interest from young, hot women like you are. Lol (it's mostly old & decrepit women in their 60s & 70s that chase me - especially on the dating apps 😖).
As I said, when it comes to men 60 plus getting with young, hot women it's usually good looks & a jacked body with $. I mentioned Dolph Lundgren -- 6'5" jacked & worth $18m engaged to mid-20s super hottie. Check this out & see for yourself:
Final thought: You have simply beaten the game getting hot, younger women given your modest lifestyle & lack of height. My congratulations! 👍
Thanks- hot but not fit- she was thin but not at all healthy. Wild lifestyle and drank way too much. 5 years later- she's approaching obese and has gone from job to job. Sad story.
Honestly, I think as most women approach their 30's they "grow up" where men are concerned.
Example- we have this informal run group where we go out after our weekly run.
One guy occasionally shows up who is more into power lifting and is very well built.
The woman I dated isn't impressed. She sees it as all for show and not to be fit and healthy.
But she did tell me that she liked my quiet confidence. She thinks I'm good looking but she said it was the way I acted when the group was out.
I wasn't putting on airs, I wasn't trying to talk over others, I wasn't trying to "out do" other "men".
This is interesting- She LOVES that I don't drive a pick up truck (that's big around here and some guys think it's manly. I would rather spend my Sundays with her doing anything and not watching "my football game" yelling at the TV drinking beer and eating wings just to show what an alpha male I am.
I've learned that this turns more adult women off than moist guys think.
I've learned that this turns more adult women off than moist guys think.
I’m living well, retired with house I love in a place I chose and I still have my health. I want to keep those but I value most and would give up anything for:
Thanks for the response. When you mentioned the one girl "not fit but very hot"...isn't that an oxymoron?
Anyway: Wow!...I guess I'm both shocked & impressed! A modest lifestyle & short statue with a slight build, and getting with attractive women half your age. A double WOW! 😯
I'm on the short side at 5'6" & weigh about 175 lbs (maybe 18-20% BF). When I was competing 30 yrs ago, I was 200 lbs in the off-season & got down to 180 shredded for competitions.
I definitely have a different body type than you do & maybe that's why it's not attractive to most women? (I get far more compliments on my physique from guys at the gym than from women. Lol).
Like you, I'm far from loaded & live a modest lifestyle (comfortable townhouse, inexpensive SUV, some discretionary income at the end of month -- far from some of the wealthier senior men that brag on this forum. Lol).
I have no idea where I fit into the looks dept at my age. I have most of my hair. I've had mixed feedback with some people saying I look "50"while others say I look my age if not slight older. Go figure. What I do know is that I'm no Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. Lol (but who really is at our age?).
A good ladyfriend of mine at the gym (50 yr bodybuilder) thinks it's my lack of height & lack of wealth that's killing me with younger women. Maybe...I don't know but I'm not getting interest from young, hot women like you are. Lol (it's mostly old & decrepit women in their 60s & 70s that chase me - especially on the dating apps 😖).
As I said, when it comes to men 60 plus getting with young, hot women it's usually good looks & a jacked body with $. I mentioned Dolph Lundgren -- 6'5" jacked & worth $18m engaged to mid-20s super hottie. Check this out & see for yourself:
Final thought: You have simply beaten the game getting hot, younger women given your modest lifestyle & lack of height. My congratulations! 👍
Thanks- hot but not fit- she was thin but not at all healthy. Wild lifestyle and drank way too much. 5 years later- she's approaching obese and has gone from job to job. Sad story.
Honestly, I think as most women approach their 30's they "grow up" where men are concerned.
Example- we have this informal run group where we go out after our weekly run.
One guy occasionally shows up who is more into power lifting and is very well built.
The woman I dated isn't impressed. She sees it as all for show and not to be fit and healthy.
But she did tell me that she liked my quiet confidence. She thinks I'm good looking but she said it was the way I acted when the group was out.
I wasn't putting on airs, I wasn't trying to talk over others, I wasn't trying to "out do" other "men".
This is interesting- She LOVES that I don't drive a pick up truck (that's big around here and some guys think it's manly. I would rather spend my Sundays with her doing anything and not watching "my football game" yelling at the TV drinking beer and eating wings just to show what an alpha male I am.
I've learned that this turns more adult women off than moist guys think.