Red flag? Attractive, fit, 30 year old woman has never been in a relationship

Despite the rigors and time demands of medical school and residency, I feel like it's more common for doctors to exit their 20s/early 30s partnered than it is for their peers in other professions. Medical schools are about a 50/50 gender split these days, and they're populated primarily with people in the same age range with similar aspirations and lifestyles. Med schools and residencies are really conducive to people coupling up. Young people who work in other sectors, in contrast, may have coworkers with a greater variety of ages and interests, or they may work in more gender-segregated professions (teaching, software engineering, etc.).

I think "busy pursuing career" could still be a logical reason an otherwise appealing person not having been in a relationship, but I don't think MDs make for a strong counterexample.

She has high discernment. Men are trash.

How are they cope fantasies? Are you implying that every single man and woman wants sex? That's factually wrong. And even if the OP is a troll, who cares? The topic in and of itself may be worth discussing. And really the idea that a single man is single because every interaction he has with women is awkward is a shallow idea. It's entirely possible for single men to talk to women about topics that have nothing to do with romantic interest. If a woman feels bored or put off, it may be because she is narrow-minded and thinks that the only reason men want to talk, is because of sexual interest. That is information limiting and shallow.

If it's not running related, I'd rather read this crap then all the political garbage.

I am not too shocked by this. I have some folks in that age range at work and in some of my social circles. A lot have not and they seem pretty normal. One woman seems to have incredibly "high" standards (height, income, religious views) that narrow the pool.

As her out and determine for yourself. I would not make it the topic of conversation at a first date unless she brings it up or asks about your past relationships.

What if people define "relationships" in different ways. Maybe what those people did would not be a "relationship" to another person.

Total red flag. You should stay far far away from her. Oh and send her to me. Thanks!

+1. It's also just not that easy to meet people outside of school. I met my husband of 20 years, who was my first serious relationship, in my running club when i was 31.

I'm not a lady of Letsrun. But I'll buck the trend here and say no, it's not a red flag. A piece of information about her, obviously, but not in itself a red flag. You've evidently already expressed interest by asking her about as much as you have. So, ask further about why she hasn't been in any relationships. It's a fair question, if asked in a tone that expresses some interest. There are all kinds of plausible answers she might give. You should be asking her instead of us.

only a red flag if she is remotely interested in you which it does not sound like she is.

Massive red flag. Anyone worth dating is in a relationship by the age of 25. This is a huge generalization but it's true.

Define relationship

Why on earth would you say "myself" right there?

I found a painting of myself.

You found a painting of me.

You yourself found a painting of I myself.

She lied. Women like to pretend to be more inexperienced and innocent than they really are.

Damn bro, friend-zoned in the very first conversation??? That's tough, dawg!!!