i am sorry for some of the ick on the thread, but this was an idea that came to me yesterday that i thought bridged the gap for the time being, and also brings in other groups i see as underrepresented or excluded in HS sports.
and as i said original post, i think if we get off the policy cliches and absolutism, some folks display humaneness and become reasonable and compromising again, and others, well, show their true selves. having provoked folks out of cliches and into speaking off cuff, their real feelings seep out. i think we need to see that so we can honestly discuss what portion of that is in the discourse.