This is probably the same guy who psychoanalyzes every minute aspect of his relationships.
This is probably the same guy who psychoanalyzes every minute aspect of his relationships.
It's hard I know, but sometimes you just have to accept that you aren't the alpha chad and not every girl is begging to get with you.
Yeah man. I'm even hotter than you. Like 10.000000000/10. It's insane how hot I am. I doubt anyone in history is hotter than me, it's not possible. Yet I don't have a girlfriend currently. It's really messed up man.
It doesn't matter what excuse she gave you, she's not into you. I make up fake excuses all the time. Move on.
Matt London Here wrote:
Some girls just like Betas, bro. It's messed up but we just gotta deal with it
Well that's nice there might be some girls out there who would like you.
OP - what a humblebrag...."this chick won't go out with me because I'm in too good of shape."
Good lord, you must be god's gift.
And, I'm willing to bet you exude this opinion of yourself - and she's being really nice by not insulting you with the "it's not you, it's me" line.
Just let the door slam - I'm betting you can find a girl that's more on your level.
UsedToBeKnowItAll wrote:
It doesn't matter what excuse she gave you, she's not into you. I make up fake excuses all the time. Move on.
I think she might actually be too attracted to me and playing hard to get. Anyone?
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
UsedToBeKnowItAll wrote:
It doesn't matter what excuse she gave you, she's not into you. I make up fake excuses all the time. Move on.
I think she might actually be too attracted to me and playing hard to get. Anyone?
IMPOSTER!!
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
dunes runner wrote:
Exactly.
Maybe look for a meathead girlfriend.
Wow, getting a lot of heat for mentioning 30 seconds of a daily part of my life over the course of 20 hours. And the one story I remember was when she had mentioned she was terrible at names. So I told her there was this worker at the gym I always talk to but we never introduced ourselves. So after a year of small talk we would always just say, "hey man, how's it going" cause neither of us knew the other's name. She thought it was funny.
You are a dumb meathead. She is not going to be a meathead girlfriend . That's not funny or interesting . You need to find a meathead girlfriend who walks around the gym with a gallon of water.
Is She Being Serious?-The Real One wrote:
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
I think she might actually be too attracted to me and playing hard to get. Anyone?
IMPOSTER!!
I guess I do have anger issues but I wonder if she feels inadequate compared to me. I do admit I lift weights partly to compensate for my little weewee but she needs to address her issues too.
Here's what she's really saying:
I don't like guys who are a big d!ck; I like guys who have a big d!ck
'nuff said.
OP.....what is your height, weight, and bench for reference?
I am a crap runner (3:24 marathon pr) but decent strength (bench 285 currently). I’ve dated a couple ladies that hated I was in better shape than them. It’s stupid, but it didn’t make them feel good about themselves.
If you’re pre-occupied with working out, I could see her issue. But that doesn’t seem the case.
Not sure your of your age, but as get around 40 years old there aren’t many fit, strong men. The ones that are are usually a) gay b) narcissistic c) not well rounded in life. So, strong and lean carries stereotypes.
She probably dumped you because you’re a meatgazer and stare at other dudes packages in the gym. Basically, youre a homo
You must have an extremely ugly mug on top of that well built body of yours. It also could be that your short, stocky and bald. Which is it?
gym luggage wrote:
You are a dumb meathead. She is not going to be a meathead girlfriend . That's not funny or interesting . You need to find a meathead girlfriend who walks around the gym with a gallon of water.
There are two really annoying types, gym bros and hobby joggers. Avoid both like the plague... however, if a lady is forced to choose between them, go for the gym bro. The fun runner will only need your protection if things get out of hand.
Stop with the brocabulary, OP. Kills it every time.
She’s insecure about her body in relation to you, probably wants leverage in the relationship by being “the cute one”, and doesn’t want to deal with you having high SMV that draws interest from other women.
Why do you care though? There are tons of beautiful women who will dig your lifestyle and you won’t have to lower your standards for life for. Women will come and go, but your self care should never take a hit.
gym luggage wrote:
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
Wow, getting a lot of heat for mentioning 30 seconds of a daily part of my life over the course of 20 hours. And the one story I remember was when she had mentioned she was terrible at names. So I told her there was this worker at the gym I always talk to but we never introduced ourselves. So after a year of small talk we would always just say, "hey man, how's it going" cause neither of us knew the other's name. She thought it was funny.
You are a dumb meathead. She is not going to be a meathead girlfriend . That's not funny or interesting . You need to find a meathead girlfriend who walks around the gym with a gallon of water.
You mean a squirter?
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
dunes runner wrote:
Exactly.
Maybe look for a meathead girlfriend.
Wow, getting a lot of heat for mentioning 30 seconds of a daily part of my life over the course of 20 hours. And the one story I remember was when she had mentioned she was terrible at names. So I told her there was this worker at the gym I always talk to but we never introduced ourselves. So after a year of small talk we would always just say, "hey man, how's it going" cause neither of us knew the other's name. She thought it was funny.
She didn't think it was actually funny.
Is She Being Serious? wrote:
dunes runner wrote:
Exactly.
Maybe look for a meathead girlfriend.
Wow, getting a lot of heat for mentioning 30 seconds of a daily part of my life over the course of 20 hours. And the one story I remember was when she had mentioned she was terrible at names. So I told her there was this worker at the gym I always talk to but we never introduced ourselves. So after a year of small talk we would always just say, "hey man, how's it going" cause neither of us knew the other's name. She thought it was funny.
She thinks you're dense , and had to say something to the uninteresting story you told her.