You haven't been performing your husbandly duties either have you? This is the bigger problem.
Can you get your testosterone levels checked?
You haven't been performing your husbandly duties either have you? This is the bigger problem.
Can you get your testosterone levels checked?
NJ Possible wrote:
Tell you're happy to go but that you'd like to stay just for a couple hours. It's New Years and you're in the minority of folks who want to do nothing. She wants to go and it's an easy thing to oblige. Tell her you guys will get at 10 and leave shortly after midnight and then come back and make sweet love. Pick your battles wisely.
Agreed. Go on the stipulation you get something special when you get home. Am I the only married guy who bargins like this?
Calling wrote:
Thanks. I forgot all about this thread until now. We're going to the party together at about 8pm. She's not sure she wants to stay until midnite, so we'll come home whenever. All is good!
All, thanks for the advice.
What is the point of going & not staying till midnight?
Defeats the theme of the night.
Sure, stay home, if your want somebody else "dropping the ball" with your wife.
Calling wrote:
My wife and I (no kids) have gone to several social events with our friends in the past two weeks (two Christmas choral concerts), holiday party at her curling club (yes, she's in a curling league!), week-before-Christmas party at our house, and Christmas Day dinner at our friends' house. We also plan to go snow tubing with a bunch of friends on January 2.
I found out that our friends our having a NYE celebration at their house and we're invited. My wife certainly wants to go, but I'm a bit burned out on social gatherings. Am I bad husband for telling my wife I'd rather just chill out at home? She would understand, I'm sure, but I don't want to be a pill. (It's quite possible she would be home before midnite, FWIW.)
Thoughts?
She don't want no scrubs.