The holidays must be a buzz kill at your place.
The holidays must be a buzz kill at your place.
Doclove wrote:
Sounds like your wife is not very sympathetic
Most likely, his wife is busting his balls over the sister and mother. No doubt she doesn't want him to spend one red cent on either.
It's plain and simple, you go get your mom and your sister out of the Homeless Shelters. People in families play different roles and now that you are in the limelight you do what is best for your family. I don't get all the contemplation and indecisiveness. YOU GO GET YOUR FAMILY OUT OF THERE! Stop posting on letsrun about it.
Never Easy wrote:
I have been paying her cell phone for 10 years. I fill her gas tank, buy her food and give her money when I can.
I live and hour and a half away.
I agree with your wife. She sounds to me to be the level headed one, so in your position, I would ask her for advice.
Why the blazes have you paid for a cell phone for your mom for 10 years? Are you rich? It sounds like you're not, since your qualifying for financing is maxed out, another reason you shouldn't be paying for a cell phone for your mom. Your other expenses must be atrocious.
Also, why are you paying for her gas?
It is sad, but sometimes no matter how much you want to help someone, they are going to keep doing what they're doing, they're not going to listen, they are not going to change, and things are not going to get any better for them.
It can be heartwrenching, but oftentimes that's how it is.
J.R. wrote:
I agree with your wife. She sounds to me to be the level headed one, so in your position, I would ask her for advice.
Why the blazes have you paid for a cell phone for your mom for 10 years? Are you rich? It sounds like you're not, since your qualifying for financing is maxed out, another reason you shouldn't be paying for a cell phone for your mom. Your other expenses must be atrocious.
Also, why are you paying for her gas?
It is sad, but sometimes no matter how much you want to help someone, they are going to keep doing what they're doing, they're not going to listen, they are not going to change, and things are not going to get any better for them.
It can be heartwrenching, but oftentimes that's how it is.
ARE YOU INSANE?!? HE'S TALKING ABOUT HIS MOTHER!!!!!
Never Easy--- best of luck!
Only thing I can recommend is giving your Mom a motivational speaking tape/cd. Anthony Robbins is fantastic!
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