I went on a first date tonight. The woman wore loafers. Major turnoff for me.

"I went on a date last night with a man who also liked running. I think we found each other reasonably attractive, but his conversation was punctuated by continual referrals to his shoe fetishism. Basically, he thinks women should wear high heeled shoes that make them appear desperate for male attention, and I think he's really controlling about women. He also seems to think women should dress like either prostitutes or actors from an 80s show.

Thankfully, the date was soon over and i didnt have to be polite and listen to his weird comments any longer. I'm throwing this one back, its a competive world out there and its not difficult to find a date. It does sadden me though that some men still judge women by what they put on their feet, rather than their character, achievements and interests. Putting on a pair of high heels is the oldest trick in the book and the world has moved on.

I make 2.5 times what he does anyway, so thankfully, I don't have to pretend to be fragile and helpless by wearing heels to get my hands on his 60k pa."

They're probably way more comfortable than heels.

If I was a girl I wouldn't wear heels, to much increased risk of ankle inversion injuries.

Have you seen the statistics of heels and inversion injuries? Not good.

"I'll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her"??? That makes no sense.

Trolling is an art form, sorry, but you are no artist.

0/10

The biggest issue with trolls is that most of them are done in drive-by fashion. You actually get points for coming back and engaging in good faith, and...the trolls here are sorely lacking in that skill. I think your grading is s bit harsh. OP took a potshot at the other gender in a way that passed muster. I would give him at least 5/10. Based on discussion alone.

Men don't care about women who make 2x what they do, or whi cam bench press 200lbs

So you got the ick?

Honestly, I couldn’t tell you what type f shoes any woman I ever dated was wearing on our first date. Although my wife wore flip flops when we got married. The sexiest shoes on a woman are running shoes.

your post makes you seem to be shallow and sexist. if anything, she's lucky she dodged a person like you.

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Nothing sexist having good taste and about knowing how to dress yourself

Jeezus. You red pill incel losers are pathetic. Fragile snowflakes intimidated by women just living their lives. You'd probably be happier living in Iran or Afghanistan, where women are treated as you'd prefer.

Grow up, you misogynistic children.

Taste is, well, a matter of taste. And obviously there is nothing inherently distasteful about loafers. They also are not an example of not knowing how to dress yourself. The OP brought up the "masculine" stereotype, which is inherently sexist.

That’s ok. She’s talking sh!+ about you on a forum called LRCisfullofracistlosers.com

We're all waiting for Jamin to return with a plane load of Eastern European long jumpers who also do Onlyfans.

Glad to see you are concentrating on the important things. It is a sign of a rational adult that will end up happy in life.

Speaking of masculinity, are you trying to get laid or are you trying to get a job as a flamboyant fashion judge on Project Runway?

LOL as a woman this would be laughable (who doesn't wear loafers) its just a shoe??? maybe instead of labeling her as masculine you should find out if she is actually masculine because you know....women have a personality.

the only one OP has a shot with is a biological male

Oh.

That.

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So.

Interesting.