Girl that goes out at night 4 times a week to drink with friends

All the incels on here terrified of people who enjoy socialising and going out, and have a tight group of friends lol

If it bothers you, or you don't trust her implicitly, break it off.

But she's not doing anything wrong. I bet you run four nights a week.

talk about a useless thread!

OMG she's sociable and might meet someone she likes more than me! She's got friends so she might talk to them and think she could do better!

If you want a girl who other guys aren't interested in, is introverted, has a strict routine so you know where she is, and goes to bed at 10pm, then join a running club!

How this post has any downvotes is beyond me; this is 100% the correct take. If the OP gets this woman pregnant he will be kicking himself for a very long time. Wow.

Yep, because all women, (especially one's who clearly love their social freedom) are just looking to get knocked up by some random on Tinder.

Sorry but I also love socialising and have a tight group of friends who are also extroverted.

Still, we are not meeting out for a drink more than once or twice a week.

4 nights a week when you are not in your college years, or don't go out for specific purpose like business people having evening meeting, is a lot.

I’m actually jealous of her. I never had that self control to go out for drinks and come home not a wreck. Thats why I would save those nights for the weekends so I can recover. To me that demonstrates that she is actually not an alcoholic, and a good sign. could probably stop drinking whenever she wants.

Ask her if she’s aware that she’s increasing her risk of breast cancer.

“Drinking even small amounts of alcohol is linked with an increased risk of breast cancer in women. Alcohol can raise estrogen levels in the body, which may explain some of the increased risk. Avoiding or cutting back on alcohol may be an important way for many women to lower their risk of breast cancer. “

cancer.org

Alcohol Use and Cancer

Most people know that heavy alcohol use can cause health problems. But many people may not be aware that alcohol use can increase their cancer risk.

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I agree, by the time you are 29, at least one or two of those nights should be spent drinking alone at your house. That's what adults do.

She likely has a drinking problem, and equally probable is a sleeping with lots of strange men problem. If she's going out that much, it isn't to drink tea and study the bible. At her age you aren't likely to be the reason she changes either of those things. If you're ok with that, fine. My suggestion as a dad if you were my kid? Run. Literally and figuratively.

Not really. I was doing 5 nights a week from late 20s - early 30s.
That being said, back then I was extremely unsuitable for dating. I was more interested in partying (aka making up for lost time) than developing a healthy relationship.

OP, you two may be in different places right now and that’s okay.

Eww. After a few shots, ask her how many abortions she’s had and report back. Odds are it’s at least one, but if she’s 29, then I’d wager on more.

journals.plos.org

Women's Risk of Repeat Abortions Is Strongly Associated with Alcohol Consumption: A Longitudinal Analysis of a Russian National Panel Study, 1994–2009

Abortion rates in Russia, particularly repeat abortions, are among the highest in the world, and abortion complications make a substantial contribution to the country's high maternal mortality rate. Russia also has a very hig...

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Eh, I think a good way to look at it is that she's not necessarily doing anything wrong considering the info we've been given. But a 29 year old getting drunk late at night 4x a week, every week; is definitely more likely to end up doing something bad than the girl you date that spends 4 nights a week with the person she's dating.

This thread confirms what bores the average poster here is.

You are dating a party girl. Most people drop this lifestyle when they start a career. But some don't.

Some are able to function and even advance in a career while living this lifestyle, but more often than not it negatively impacts people's work life.

So the question is do you like going out like this? If you two were doing something earlier in the evening would she still go out after? You probably made this thread because you are having doubts about compatibility.

Have fun with it for a little while and should you no longer be having fun, break up, ideally before you fall in love.

Girl kinda sounds like the man tbh

Is she hot?

does she exercise?

she’s probably out looking for someone better than you