There’s the whole 18 thing, except it’s younger in some states I believe. Imagine a 40 year old dating a 16 year old, for example. No rule preventing that in some places
So I'm a 34yo guy who usually dates women my age or even a couple years older (I am mature for my age partially because I was surrounded by people older than me growing up). However, I went out with a 25yo about 2 months ago now, and we hit it off immediately. Not only is there a lot of physical chemistry, but we both genuinely like each other a lot, and honestly, she's WAY more mature than the vast majority of women I've gone out with. For instance, I dated a 34yo for 6 months about a year ago, and this new girl is far more mature and with it than that woman was... It's easy for me to forget the age difference because I never think about it. We talk and do things and have fun. Everything has been great so far (though of course it's still early).
All that being said, and I really don't care about this but am just wondering what to expect, will people think it's weird at all given the 9 year age gap? I know there are bigger gaps out there, but 9 is by far the largest I've ever had. Anyone been in a relationship like this around this age? Does anyone care these days?
Why would you date someone 11 years younger if it bothers you? Seems you have the problem. Not everyone else.
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I'm also posting on a running forum, asking for dating advice, because I'm too worried about what other people will think, rather than simply doing the thing that will make me happy.
Most people calculate it by dividing their age by two and then adding seven years to that number. But not many women are comfortable with wide age gaps in the lower end. This applies to both mature and young women who mostly prefer to stay within the 3-to 5-year lower age limit. In a nutshell, we are now walking the talk with wider age gaps becoming more and more common. Maybe one day, age will indeed be just a number!
A 9-year gap between two consenting adults is totally fine. But of course someone will think it's weird. That's how our world is. There's always someone.
You can't live your life worrying about how other people think you should live your life. Do it your way and have no regrets.
Seems fine. She's 25. Would be different if she was a teenager. At 25 someone is totally free to do what they wish. I don't see any issues, apart from you may be at different stages in life. Everyone has different life experiences. Someone age 25 could've lived more and be less sheltered than someone age 40. It just depends. I wouldn't tie yourself up thinking about this or make it an issue.
A 25 year old can think for themselves. That being said, it would not be a great thing for her long term as you will probably die 14 years before she will. Of course, if you have a decent amount of money, she may not mind.
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I’m a female - was 23 when I met my husband at age 32. We got married 3 years later and it’s been 14 years. I have many friends with a similar 7-10 year age gap. I’m not sure what people think, but I’ve never gotten a strange reaction. I’d say the major thing was I ended up having kids earlier than I thought I would. Of course you don’t have to do this, but my husband didn’t want to feel “old” having kids.