A girl asked me to run with her need advice

Whatever you do. Don't go ahead of her even if she suggests it. When she stops running you stop running. If you like her and want a relationship. Put the relationship first. You can run your best when she's not expecting you to run with her. She's probably running to gain points with you. You should let her know she doesn't have to run to be in a relationship with you. (Unless otherwise)

I will be the contrarian here. OP you sound like you MAY be on the verge of getting friendzoned. Hard to tell though.

Anyways, I would run with her, but definitely act like your OWN workout is more important than HER. Be nice, give her a little attention, but ultimately focus on getting your pace in. "I'll meet you back at the parking lot, its only 2 miles from here" then blast away from this Friendzoning girl. Then when you meet at the parking lot, show more interest in your cool down than her.

Girls go crazy when guys they think they can take advantage of show lacking interest in them.

I know it sounds like middle school dating tactics, but you need to ignore/be cold to them a bit (especially if she's relatively hot).

Props to the OP for this post. The comments didn't disappoint. But don't leave us in suspense.... did you take her pound town after your jog?

Def wear half tights no shirt to flex your dump truck and package. Asset your dominance by running sub 6 miles the entire time. That should impress her it always works for me

+1 Just go for it, you're either getting friend zoned or she likes you no in-between. If she isn't a good runner still say with her the whole way, if she slows down slow down too. Just get her to do it again next week.

definitely a good sign

And report back.

I've been on runs with many females in my day and others who I thought were female but turned out to not be. My biggest set of advice would be to drop her as fast as possible. This both establishes you as the alpha in the relationship and the more fit athlete. A win win. (Make sure to ask afterward is she wants to do the same thing next week, this ensures a second date)

Correction: "A girl asked me to run with her. I need advice."

A bit of punctuation wouldn't go astray. Girls don't tend to like lazy, deadsh*ts that can't write.

Bad advice.

Just run with her. The important part is nothing anyone will likely say here.

Talk about her…the things she is interested in. That’s all, it’s pretty easy. Ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat after.

If you are a serious runner I would think it is best to be with another serious runner. I think a serious runner/athlete would know to let you train hard and be the best you can be and she does the same. Which means doing your own thing when it comes to train. It is best to be with someone who understands that or else you are forcing it. It is best not to do meaningless dating and just focus on yourself until you are ready to support a family. Focus your time on yourself. If you are a motivated person and serious runner the fact that she says that she can't run long enough on her own shows that doesn't have that mindset, which translates over to other aspects. If she truly respects you and what you do it would mean both doing your own thing, plenty of time to talk to her after training. She can run with a girl who is a friend or by herself rather than slow you down and off your main focus.

Dude........who cares about the run. Just run with her and make her have fun.

Are you sure you should run with her? Is she going to understand the commitment needed of a distance runner and how distracting a girlfriend or even just a friend in general can be? Unless she is at a pace conducive to your training and also isn't going to be high maintenance and cause added stress to the worries of a runner don't risk it. Staying single and focusing only on running is the sure way to success

It is a sign that she respects your running ability and has thus asked you to help by running with her so she runs long enough. Assuming you are in better running shape than she is.

So help her out by running with her, at her pace, for however long she wants to go. Talk about what she wants to do/goal of the run before starting. The conversation should primarily be about her on the run, not yourself.

You will have to see how it goes during the run and judge if there is a sign of anything else. Don't go into this with expectations. You can have hopes, but that is about it for right now.

This is just an easy chill run. If you want to train do that on another day or another run.

If it is going well during the run invite her out for something to eat after. We want pics and a link to a strava file so we know it happened.

Yea, I agree, best to not waste your time. Be successful and let them come to you. And if they think you are not nice for not running with them then they don't understand the mindset of being an athlete or respect you.

Dude just run 10 miles with her at 10min mile pace. Do this for a couple weeks or even a month. Then ask if she would like to go out to dinner and then go from there. Dont be nervous. You got this!

Or if you like her go all in and ask for a shower together

Shower together after the run, sounds like a good idea.

I prefer them to people who go around correcting other people's's grammar.

Impress her Fisher’s 10k splits.

don't listen to this. Wear your freshest pair of alphafly's and whoop her ass.

But seriously, don't listen to this. Telling someone on the first date that she doesn't have to run to be in a relationship with you is a good way to make sure there won't be another