First of all, thank you for responding to my post.
Most of what you have mentioned, I have done already. I have a local cross country program started for youth and I am the high school coach as well. I get the kids interested, get their parents involved and start them off easy. I try to get them hooked on the sport and convinced that personal improvement is the definition of success. I find maybe 25% try it out and just don't like it. I may never see them again. However, the rest usually get pretty involved and love running and competing. I don't emphasize winning at the young age, but I do try to get them to be competitive and accomplish their goals. A few of them even qualify for USATF Nationals every year and have a great time traveling for that.
I understand what you are saying about competitiveness, but at the same time, most kids at that age feel a need to be competitive and this can be a good outlet for them. Sometimes I feel lack of competitiveness may drive kids out of the sport. If a kid does both youth soccer and youth cross country, the soccer is often taken very seriously and cross country may be less focused. I think sometimes kids in this situation see soccer, or whatever else they are involved in, as a real sport and cross country as an activity that is less important. I realize that soccer has burnout and it's easy to burnout kids on running, but you have to admit that as hard as soccer is pushed, youth soccer is way ahead of youth cross country right now.
How much attrition do you risk? You can't water down a sport to make everyone like it. I'm still interested in hearing how the East Africans, Morrocans, etc. approach it from a developmental standpoint from ages 8-12. I would like to know about things such as how seriously they are pushed, compete, etc. as well as more technical information on how they train.
I am in no way arguing with your points. I am just giving my thoughts on it and looking for criticism, agreement, and/or general discussion from anyone else interested in the development of young athletes.