It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
Personally, I would dump my girl in a heartbeat for dirty dancing with other dudes @ a club.
Did you two have sex that night and did you channel your "pure hate" while doing so?
Pics?
_jamie_ wrote:
It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
That's because it happened before.
Alcohol lowers inhibitions. She tries to control her urges with other men when sober but a little greasing of the wheels and she's off to the races. Maybe she is less inhibited and doesn't need alcohol when you aren't around, probably. Problem is ,why is she so repressed when you are her BF? Not really just kidding, but you probably need to let this one go play the field, or whatever she needs to do.
The thing is I told her that it pissed me off alot the same night it happened while i was still drunk too. She got somewhat defensive about it and said that I'd do the same thing when she's not there.
_jamie_ wrote:
The thing is I told her that it pissed me off alot the same night it happened while i was still drunk too. She got somewhat defensive about it and said that I'd do the same thing when she's not there.
Well, in that case you'd better put a ring on it.
Dances with is one thing, dirty dances with though, I’m out.
You being there makes it worse too, makes you wonder what she would do if you weren’t
Also what couple goes to a club?
_jamie_ wrote:
It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
What were you doing at the time?
Why don't you try talking to her when you're sober... unless that's an impossibility because you never find yourself in that state.
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
_jamie_ wrote:
It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
What were you doing at the time?
wasted on the couch...very drunk
I do care if my "girl" dances with another guy at the club. OP, you asked the question and got my answer. What else more you want from us?
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_jamie_ wrote:
It happened to me, my girlfriend was pretty drunk and she dirty danced with another guy at the club, nothing happened further than that. I got pissed off though. I was wondering if you think I'm overreacting or that this should be a no no for her?
Well the dirty dancing aspect is bothersome. I would prefer she not dance with another guy unless he is a friend of ours. I am not a big dancer so when we would go out with a group my GF would often dance with someone in our group. Of course I was the one taking her home that night :)
It happened to me twice. Both times I walked out on the girl without saying anything. Next time they called me I let them know that I’m no longer interested, and tell them why. It’s usually a short conversation. Do not feel bad about yourself, normal people don’t dance or grind with other people when they’re dating someone. She is a rotten girl. In my cases both girls tried coming back to me after some time but I ignored the requests. People never change. If I were you, I’d dump her today. Only bad thing is, you had the chance to do it right at the incident, but now you’re going to look stupid since it’s taken you some time to do the math. Better late than never though! Otherwise you’ll find her doing way worse.
Slowy showy wrote:
normal people don’t dance or grind with other people when they’re dating someone. .
Why not? What is you are at the club and they put on some salsa or bachata and you don't know how to dance to those and your partner wants to dance? Should your partner deprive themself of chance to dance because you've got two left feet.
I dance with other guys girls all the time. Not my fault you guys never learned to ballroom dance! Guys who can dance clean up, but don't learn how if you don't want - more fun for those of us who can!
chayanne wrote:
Slowy showy wrote:
normal people don’t dance or grind with other people when they’re dating someone. .
Why not? What is you are at the club and they put on some salsa or bachata and you don't know how to dance to those and your partner wants to dance? Should your partner deprive themself of chance to dance because you've got two left feet.
I dance with other guys girls all the time. Not my fault you guys never learned to ballroom dance! Guys who can dance clean up, but don't learn how if you don't want - more fun for those of us who can!
When I say normal, I’m more referring to a statistical norm factoring in the general population, and less toward the salsa dancing folk who like to “clean up” and “have fun.”
If you were at the club without her, what would be going on?
I really don’t mind. In fact, I enjoy watching.
