Sex before marriage?

Kiddo in collego wrote:

Do you guys believe in sex before marriage? Why or why not? Asking for a friend.

I don't believe in sex after marriage.

It’s normal for men and women to have sex before marriage. Suppressing this instinct only leads to regret, anger, and possibly sex crimes (see the Catholic Church).

Don't you guys have a message board at BYU?

Is that you Dr. Blasey?

No, it's Dr. Ford.

Don't believe in violence

I don't even believe in me

I've opened the door

And my mind has been released

- Under the Sun by Black Sabbath

Only if it believed in me.

It can be a life altering financial and health decision and should not be entered into by individuals who are economically incapable of affording the consequences of their actions. Its a major reason why millennials are having 50% of their kids outside of wedlock and why life long diseases like HPV (which kills nearly as many people as HIV in the US) and herpes are reaching epidemic levels. Many of the diseases out there can impact your ability to procreate later on in life and enjoy a healthy sex life in marriage. My spouse and I entered marriage disease free and don't have to take a bunch of pills or alter our sexual habits because of some disease flare up (basically we can shag whenever we want). In the end it is up to each individual to make that choice, but I would like to point out that there are financial and health benefits to waiting.

Joedirt said "in the end"

A-Woman wrote:

Kiddo in collego wrote:

Do you guys believe in sex before marriage? Why or why not? Asking for a friend.

I don't believe in sex after marriage.

I get it while I can.

the Holy Quran and American conservatives agree - big no no. it is not haram, you'll burn in hell.

jesus christ did nobody tell you about condoms?

A-Woman wrote:

Kiddo in collego wrote:

Do you guys believe in sex before marriage? Why or why not? Asking for a friend.

I don't believe in sex after marriage.

This is a real issue. Big time. Women, more so than men, tend to lose interest in sex (or rather in sex with their husband) over time. It just happens. Not to EVERYONE. But to most. I mean if there is any doubt just look at the famous PNSO thread on here. Running website, totally irrelevant topic, still one of the largest and longest running ones around. Either a TON of people are telling stories out their butts, or there is something going on here.

Some literature support for this as well.

Obviously not literature, but this isn't a bad starting point for a read:

Extreme position, but he is logical on most and makes some good points many are not aware of. I absolutely think if you get married you're fvking insane if you don't get a prenup 6-12 months ahead of time, witnessed and explained by a judge. Your marriage will, in all likelihood, end. Don't let that fvck your life. If it works for you, that's awesome you'll never need it.

I'm saving myself for divorce

You realise this is 2018, not 1918?

More in depth discussion:

http://www.blackdragonsystem.com/uploads/3/9/7/2/3972480/why_long_term_monogamy_doesnt_work.pdf

Kiddo in collego wrote:

Do you guys believe in sex before marriage? Why or why not? Asking for a friend.

Of course. Their is no rational argument I've ever heard given why you shouldn't. They are all borne out of emotional objections "You can't have respect", "It's not mature", "It's WRONG, god says so". Etc.

No one has ever, to my knowledge, formulated a rational argument for why waiting until you sign some papers and have a ceremony suddenly makes sex okay.

The sexual revolution was a total disaster! Nice job boomers.

Hardloper wrote:

The sexual revolution was a total disaster! Nice job boomers.

Not sure if sarcastic or not. If so, how and why?

What do you define as sexual revolution?