Was looking at pictures in an old digital camera and there were a bunch of vacation photos with my gf and her ex from a few years ago when they were together. Not sure what I should do. It was in a box with some other old college stuff. I don't think she's keeping them on purpose and fantasizing about her ex. I haven't confronted her about it yet. Should I just forget about it or maybe it will get "lost."
And before anyone asks, yes a lot of those pics are on there.
She had a past. You had a past. Get over it.
She thew the camera in the 'old college stuff box'. She didn't hide the images from you.
No hidden agenda no drama
Move on.
This thread is useless without pictures.
If 2000's romcoms have taught us anything, she is probably still in love with the ex. In fact, I'd be willing to bet she pleasures herself to these pictures when you're not around, she's probably doing it right now. My advice to you is to photoshop your face onto his head in all of these pictures, print them out and frame them, then hang them in your bedroom. That should get the message across that you're the alpha.
The Love Doctor wrote:
This thread is useless without pictures.
Funny, when I was looking at the photos, my first thought was "These pictures are useless without a thread".
I stumbled across pics of my old gf. Lucky I dumped her. She didn't age very well!
Aka you snooped through her stuff. You could just delete em? She would never bring it up lol
This happened to me before. I found a holiday album with photos when I was cleaning out the attic. Some of them were a bit to erotic. When I was alone in the house, I lit a fire and put the album in the fire. She suddenly arrived back half way through it burning. I grabbed some newspapers and threw them over the album so it looked like I was just burning newspapers. That was a scary moment.
Banana Bread wrote:
This happened to me before. I found a holiday album with photos when I was cleaning out the attic. Some of them were a bit to erotic. When I was alone in the house, I lit a fire and put the album in the fire. She suddenly arrived back half way through it burning. I grabbed some newspapers and threw them over the album so it looked like I was just burning newspapers. That was a scary moment.
Quick thinking is crucial in emotional sabotage.
Banana Bread wrote:
This happened to me before. I found a holiday album with photos when I was cleaning out the attic. Some of them were a bit to erotic. When I was alone in the house, I lit a fire and put the album in the fire. She suddenly arrived back half way through it burning. I grabbed some newspapers and threw them over the album so it looked like I was just burning newspapers. That was a scary moment.
Yeah, the sentiment is in the right place here but this is a little too close for comfort.
The correct solution is to dowse her / your (joint) apartment entirely in gas and burn the whole place down. This will be so overwhelming that it will shift attention away from the cause and allow her to make a completely fresh, dependant start with you literally without any attachments to the past. Good luck!
The Love Doctor wrote:
This thread is useless without pictures.
There is an old video of her skating on ice.
For example:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=wazOhkRuySIIn conclusion:
1) woW = Wow