confused runner chick wrote:
The actual OP here with an update:
I messaged the coffee guy and told him I was busy the weekend (I actually was) but maybe some other time. He said sure, let me know and we can plan something.
Also talked to my boyfriend who trusts me and knows I'm not going to do anything with this guy (which I absolutely am not). We thought also that he could come over sometime this week (as I said earlier, I usually go over to his place). And if we ran into coffee guy, I could then also tell coffee guy we could go get coffee sometime but use "we" to include both my boyfriend and I.
All in all, it was fine. Sorry I don't have more drama for you Letsrun.
So basically you asked us for advice, you were given a lot of advice, all of it the same, then you ignored it, and now you are stringing this guy along while stoking insecurity in your current boyfriend's view of your relationship. WTF?!