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I was researching that yesterday. I only has 1/5 rating on Google Play. Can't be good.
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Found my wife on asiandating.com
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The best girls are in church.
Chicago, NYC, Boston, DC, Miami, Houston, Los Angeles or basically any major city dating apps are going to bode well. The reason is that high functioning females flock to these cities for job opportunities at abundant rates or at least more so than their peers. I tend to think along the lines that females do better in school than their male counterparts and thus have more career trajectory.
That said, to answer your question look to Bumble over POF or Tinder. But -- this is a huge BUT -- realize that while these high functioning females are in abundance it does not mean they are mentally stable or good potential relationship partners. I think a good percentage are simply lonely and their mild narcissisms enjoy the validation and mysterious allure. But here's my take -- these girls want committment but are prone to flake after just a few weeks IF it even gets that far. Swiping for a match and then MEETING up with that person os a huge barrier. Hooking up requires serious game after that. Holding a relationship for longer than three weeks is going to be far and few between.
These females are misfits already who, because of their facebooks and instagrams, are in a rush to play The Bachelor from their pocket phones because they envy some sort of ideal image. A lot of girls are going mold to your needs only to flake within 10 days and never respond to you (or put you on block). Be prepared for that. Be prepared for great looking girls who dont seem like tramps but slooted in college and need a perscription to valtrex (true story). Be prepared for the unbelievably hot hookup to decide after 10 days she's going to put you on block without explanation (another true story). Be prepared for the dorkishly ideal girl who is 8.5/10, maybe some extra beer/coffee/work calories but seemingly warm and loving (and cool) who has commitment issues through the roof (yet another true story).
I carried one of these relationships for 7 weeks and felt mind raped after the fact. The truth is the generations ahead of us (parents, work superiors, etc) are always going to ask, "Howd you two meet?" And there is still the dirty Tinder effect coming from announcing Bumble or POF. It wreaks desperation. So be prepared for that.
Each of these women will bring baggage of some sort. Youll have a brief honeymoon phase that cultivates all sorts of feelings. If she doesnt fear intimacy and is mentally stable (I contend many dont meet this criteria), you might get a few dates. But be prepared because she may flake on you on a whim and completely pull thr rug from out under you. As a male, youre at a disadvantage. Women can have whatever they want, whenever they want, sleep with you, promise you the world and then also have the ability to cry wolf and say words like stalker or creepy and society accepts it as such even though it may not be the case.
If youre willing to go through the toils and breakdown the online barrier there may be something worth it. But at the end of the day our society still has a stigma for people who meet online or through a dating app which may lead to virtuous themed issues.
Happiness is the ultimate goal and an end (to life). But the allure of meeting somoene and the validation that comes with it can mask the feeling of happiness so be prepared all the way through for some messed up situation to arise.
Hope that makes sense and happy swiping.
That's what I hear about in Utah. ?
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Chicago, NYC, Boston, DC, Miami, Houston, Los Angeles or basically any major city dating apps are going to bode well. The reason is that high functioning females flock to these cities for job opportunities at abundant rates or at least more so than their peers. I tend to think along the lines that females do better in school than their male counterparts and thus have more career trajectory.
Why aren't they flocking to Denver?
It's something like a 3 or 4 to 1 ratio of men to women in the 18-49 age demographics here!
I talked to a nightclub owner the other night and he said he's going to cancel his ladies' night special because three times as many dudes show up! ?. Another nightclub owner said the other day that the new nickname for Denver is....."Menver." Get it everyone..."MENver!" ?
Swiping 4 misfits wrote:
Chicago, NYC, Boston, DC, Miami, Houston, Los Angeles or basically any major city dating apps are going to bode well. The reason is that high functioning females flock to these cities for job opportunities at abundant rates or at least more so than their peers. I tend to think along the lines that females do better in school than their male counterparts and thus have more career trajectory.
That said, to answer your question look to Bumble over POF or Tinder. But -- this is a huge BUT -- realize that while these high functioning females are in abundance it does not mean they are mentally stable or good potential relationship partners. I think a good percentage are simply lonely and their mild narcissisms enjoy the validation and mysterious allure. But here's my take -- these girls want committment but are prone to flake after just a few weeks IF it even gets that far. Swiping for a match and then MEETING up with that person os a huge barrier. Hooking up requires serious game after that. Holding a relationship for longer than three weeks is going to be far and few between.
These females are misfits already who, because of their facebooks and instagrams, are in a rush to play The Bachelor from their pocket phones because they envy some sort of ideal image. A lot of girls are going mold to your needs only to flake within 10 days and never respond to you (or put you on block). Be prepared for that. Be prepared for great looking girls who dont seem like tramps but slooted in college and need a perscription to valtrex (true story). Be prepared for the unbelievably hot hookup to decide after 10 days she's going to put you on block without explanation (another true story). Be prepared for the dorkishly ideal girl who is 8.5/10, maybe some extra beer/coffee/work calories but seemingly warm and loving (and cool) who has commitment issues through the roof (yet another true story).
I carried one of these relationships for 7 weeks and felt mind raped after the fact. The truth is the generations ahead of us (parents, work superiors, etc) are always going to ask, "Howd you two meet?" And there is still the dirty Tinder effect coming from announcing Bumble or POF. It wreaks desperation. So be prepared for that.
Each of these women will bring baggage of some sort. Youll have a brief honeymoon phase that cultivates all sorts of feelings. If she doesnt fear intimacy and is mentally stable (I contend many dont meet this criteria), you might get a few dates. But be prepared because she may flake on you on a whim and completely pull thr rug from out under you. As a male, youre at a disadvantage. Women can have whatever they want, whenever they want, sleep with you, promise you the world and then also have the ability to cry wolf and say words like stalker or creepy and society accepts it as such even though it may not be the case.
If youre willing to go through the toils and breakdown the online barrier there may be something worth it. But at the end of the day our society still has a stigma for people who meet online or through a dating app which may lead to virtuous themed issues.
Happiness is the ultimate goal and an end (to life). But the allure of meeting somoene and the validation that comes with it can mask the feeling of happiness so be prepared all the way through for some messed up situation to arise.
Hope that makes sense and happy swiping.
I've tried Bumble twice. Maybe third time is the charm?
Jamin, have you tried to objectively look at why you're not having success? It's not the apps fault.
Are you having trouble getting matches? Are you getting matches but no dates? Are you getting dates but they don't go anywhere?
I never suggested that it's the app's fault, but some apps are better than others --
have fewer fake or inactive profiles, don't put all their useful features behind a paywall, and so on.
Is there an app called...Karma dot com? or I’m tired of the players dot com? Or you lost your chance dot com ? or help me letsrrun dot com?...lol
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Is there an app called...Karma dot com? or I’m tired of the players dot com? Or you lost your chance dot com ? or help me letsrrun dot com?...lol
Your humor is not working
Bumble and Hinge are the best apps in my book if you're looking to date on a swiping app.
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brah, hinge if u want a girlfriend . tinder if u want a hookup thot