Agreed. Both are deal breakers. But smoking is extra awful.
Agreed. Both are deal breakers. But smoking is extra awful.
My wife got a tattoo on her upper back a few years ago, and I think it's freaking awesome. It's essentially an original piece of artwork she commissioned to be put on her back, which has a special meaning to her, but also looks cool as hell regardless.
If she started smoking, I don't even know what I'd do... roll up a newpaper and whack her in the face every time she lit up?
Aqua man wrote:
Crazy?
Well coach, 45% of women under 35 years of age have tattoos.
Throw as many searches as you want.
Sooo, not sure what you need to do next other than;
1. Accept reality
2. Refer to 1
I was incorrect, the actual number is about 2% (all-women). I don't have time to give you a lesson is stats and surveying, but you would have to be pretty stupid to think nearly half of the women in America have a tattoo. Think about it this way, if the average tattoo cost $100 bucks and nearly half the women in America had one, the tattoo industry would be one of the largest in America.
I have a large/very large circle of friends/associates and I only know of one woman who has a visible tattoo. I am sure the circle you mingle in is full of tattooed women which probably makes you think everybody is doing it. I've got news for you, there are a ton of people who hate tattoos and have a low opinion of women who have them. As a young woman, if you get a tattoo, especially a highly visible one, you have eliminated about 1/3rd of your potential mates. I once heard somewhere that even in the porn industry, your earnings potential is lessened by having tattoos.
Personally, I don't have major heart burn with a woman having a small tattoo you'd only see at the beach. My big problem is my stepson, who is a PE and has a tattoo on his hand which you can't hide and the fact that it has cost him job opportunities.
Tattoos by far. At least she can quit smoking but tattoos are permanent.
"Dealbreaker?" Seriously?
Are we talking wife material or something a bit more casual? Even if you don't love them how can a tat break the deal on a brief hook up or something? Lighten up.
Anyway...for me smoking is out either way. I don't want to taste that on a woman's lips even momentarily.
But for tattoos, different story. While I don't have any, I think quality ones are sexy as hell. No problem at all dating a woman with a full sleeve or even more; I'd actually say it's a bonus. Given the option between two equally hot women, one inked and one not, I'd go for the inked one.
Regular Poster wrote:
Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos? Both are dealbreaker's for me, but smokes is worse for sure.
Well I love hot tatted up girls. I don't like smokers. So this was easy. Wish life was as easy as this question.
Here's an ultra-sexual Asian trampstamp of the type I was discussing two pages back...
Here's some good stats on tattoos. Only 1000 responders but the poll was conducted under the joint direction of one Republican leaning and one Democratic leaning polling agency. So it's not some phony NYT poll.
Both are repulsive. But if forced to choose, I might favor the smoking. At least there's a possibility of her quitting. The tattoo will be around forever, and it will look sillier with each passing year - a constant reminder of her fragile self-esteem. This all assumes that she'd actually drop the smoking habit though. If not, then the tattoo is the lesser of the two moronic evils.
Why do people put tattoos on their backs in a place where no one can see them? Just curious what the thought process is. If you like the tat so much, wouldn't you want to be able to see it yourself (if not other people)?
I love seeing a cute girl in traffic with a cig. SCHWING
A woman that smokes and has tats is totally hot.
I'd just prefer she not smoke around me.
And keep her tats inconspicuous.
tatman wrote:
Why do people put tattoos on their backs in a place where no one can see them? Just curious what the thought process is. If you like the tat so much, wouldn't you want to be able to see it yourself (if not other people)?
Read a book about sexual positions.
GutsIsEnough.... wrote:
http://livingtraditionally.com/toxic-truth-tattoos/tattoos are for the weak minded followers
^this is false!!! fake news!!!! The exact opposite of reality.
Tattoo = unique individual wrote:
Regular Poster wrote:Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos? Both are dealbreaker's for me, but smokes is worse for sure.
Smoking is worse by far. Tattoos are great. They make one a unique individual that stands out from the crowd. People without tattoos are boring sheep. Plus, as someone else suggested a woman with a tattoo increases the chances of three hole action which only beta-males don't like.
^This is correct. People with tattoos are unique trendsetters not following the crowd like all the non-tatted sheep out there. Tattoo-havers are strong minded individuals of character.
Also, chicks with tats tend to be wild in the sack. Ain't nothin' wrong with a little mud on your helmet brah!
Big Don wrote:
I dont know what it is but even when I watch porn the minute I see a chick has tattoos my arousal drops and I have to find something better. Just a total trashy turnoff for me.
You like your porn classy. So you've seen both videos, then.
Incorrect!!!!!!! wrote:
^This is correct. People with tattoos are unique trendsetters not following the crowd like all the non-tatted sheep out there. Tattoo-havers are strong minded individuals of character.
Also, chicks with tats tend to be wild in the sack. Ain't nothin' wrong with a little mud on your helmet brah!
Why don't you just bypass the middleman and go straight for the dick? Chicks with tats have had so many dicks inserted into them you that you are essentially sleeping with all those dudes.
FightFor15 wrote:
Where is the thread set up by a woman giving the two qualities she doesn't like about you. I do not see anything close to the number of women posting about a man's looks versus the number of men posting about a woman's appearance.
Smoking and tats are about more than just looks.
For the record, I also find shallow girls repulsive, no mattter how they look.
What I find disgusting about these women is they have money for exotic tats and an expensive ciggie habit but can't afford to go to the dentist.
I'm actually surprised that so many of you stiffs don't like women with tattoos. It's like you've lived your entire lives in some bleach-cleaned, upper middle class, boring-as-crap, pop culture filled, suburban bubble without any exposure to people that have done anything interesting with their lives.
A woman you're attracted to has a tattoo or two. Big deal. There are much, much worse things. Meanwhile you've had a stick up your bum since day one and it's lodged up there so far that you don't even know what it feels like to have an unpuckered anus.
One in five Americans have a tattoo. About half of all women under the age of 35 have tattoos (23% of all women)...and about 18% of evangelical Christians do too.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2014/03/14/fox-news-poll-tattoos-arent-just-for-rebels-anymore.html
http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/one-in-five-us-adults-now-has-a-tattoo-140123523.html