Backstory: I divorced my wife and moved away from my young family about 22 years ago. We kept in touch and I financially supported them but only saw them a few weeks out of the year. Not interested in hearing what a jerk I am because I've been through that. I've apologized to my children about it. I have 3 kids, two sons and one daughter. I can't help but notice that my adult sons are a little off - no kids, no girlfriends, few friends decent careers but clearly unhappy. Very distant. My daughter has a good career and long term boyfriend and seems well-adjusted. But my sons...are just off. Any advice on how to make them normal?