My own parents did their best and then at other times I feel that by my standard they did not do their best but I'm different from them, so ...
I had it rough, big time. But I think that made me the person that I am today. I feel like making an artificially rough situation or scenarios for my kids so that they suffer. They have it easy. I hope they are smart enough to learn by listening and understanding. I hope they appreciate everything they are given.
When I think about freezing my ____ off at night time, I didn't have blanket or bed sheets. I used to be wide awake at 3am.
When I think about my cognizant desire to want to fist fight my own drunken father at the ripe young age of 9 months old. In my mind and memory I was pissed that I wasn't already bigger, taller and stronger so as to jab, punch and kick. At that young age, I couldn't even walk, but I knew something was wrong with him. He confirmed it many times years later. His problem was that he was a drunk and more disturbing a coward. I can't stand cowards. People think I dislike certain others or groups of people. No, it's not that, I just despise cowards, people afraid of things.
No food.
I took great care of what clothing I had.
Was friendly and friends but never went out, no cash.
Stolen bike, not replaced.
No TV set, so not even basic cable.
No direction, had to learn about life and success by observing successful people downtown, as I road the city bus to get places like school.
Concussed a good number of times, wishing someone even knew about those and would have advise so as to skip a few of them.
Saw some things I wish I hadn't from both my Mom's behavior and my Dad's behavior.
I could go on but then I'd be divulging too much information.
I never really felt a part of my family, they were different although I'm very friendly with them today and always have been.
But damn, was it a rough up bringing.