pics?
pics?
of course wrote:
pics?
These are the moments when I miss Mr. Obvious.
a real outdoorsman wrote:
I'd rather be a jerk than an idiot.
Great news, OP: You don't have to choose!
vivalarepublica wrote:
I think that it might be best for one of us to contact your potential roommate and tell her to not live with you.
Yeah, OP it sounds like you've got some anger issues/trouble accepting feedback. How is your running going? Are you being careful to keep it on the crete? Maybe that'll help.
of course wrote:
pics?
Long overdue comment. This thread is pretty much useless as is for anything other than a laugh.
Dude, she's hot and you guys have stuff in common. Room with her. DUH.
#brologic
Still my favorite poster. You make me proud.
a real outdoorsman wrote:
His reasoning was based on incorrect assumptions and an inaccurate understanding of me. I merely pointed these things out and then expressed my opinion that he sounds unconfident and unskilled around women. If you or he finds that so cutting, it only further reveals your insecurity and lack of confidence.
Your reading comprehension is quite poor, and your logic that reading books indicates weenieness confirms you're a dolt. You would be better off not posting at all.
I'd rather be a jerk than an idiot.
Poor real outdoorsman,
Take your outing here as a learning experience. You are WAY TO SENSITIVE and thin skinned to be a confident alpha male. Your comments about others being weak or stupid reflect your own weakness. Even your handle seems a bit like your are trying too hard. Anyone needing to try, isn't that secure.
As far as your question, first based on your established credibility I have to wonder if the girl you described as hot is really that hot.
I think this "hot girl" living with you is a real mistake for the girl. Your whole thread dealing with her hotness and how it would be tells me you are thinking of the wrong things.
HOW WOULD YOUR GIRLFRIEND FEEL ABOUT THIS LIVING ARRANGEMENT? OH THATS RIGHT, I DIDN'T HAVE TO ASK DID I?
There sure are a lot of insecure retards on this thread.
OP it sounds like you're the only one on this thread who's ever been with a woman, so just ignore what everyone else has said, and make your own choices.
Grow up ::: wrote:
OP it sounds like you're the only one on this thread who's ever been with a woman, so just ignore what everyone else has said, and make your own choices.
That's basically what I gathered, which is why I stopped posting.
OP sounds pretty insecure
a real outdoorsman wrote:
Grow up ::: wrote:OP it sounds like you're the only one on this thread who's ever been with a woman, so just ignore what everyone else has said, and make your own choices.
That's basically what I gathered, which is why I stopped posting.
So what you gonna do?
Im not insecure!!! You are the one that is insecure for saying I am insecure.
vivalarepublica wrote:
Okay, OP, you already know what you want to do, you just came here so we could help you confirm the decision that you want to make.
I am going to give you the advice that you need to hear about living with attractive women. First of all, you need to admit that you are sexually attracted to this female and you have thoughts about sleeping with her and having one of those "roommates with benefits" situations. It's not just about compatible interests and personalities.
If by the grace of God that you end up sleeping with this woman, the probability points towards things going south rather riding out smoothly until the end of your lease. Think about it. How many adult sexual relationship actually end well in the long term, and are between two people that can amicably live together? Few.
The first thing you should consider is establishing a smooth and respectful roommate relationship. You need to determine if this roommate is reliable and not crazy before even considering tasting the flesh. Perhaps if you become genuine friends first, it might blossom into something else. My most meaningful relationships with females always started on a friendly level before anything else.
If a miracle occurs and this woman allows you to have sex with her, I only hope that you two can maintain a positive roommate relationship while also maintaining a sexual relationship. In theory, it sounds great. In reality, it's a little more difficult.
You need to understand that some attractive women are very good at presenting themselves well upon first impression to be in good favor. With time, their true personality starts to reveal itself, and that personality may or may not be something you want to be around. Sex with somebody you don't like will only last so long.
And a boring roommate that pays the rent is much more desirable than a hot one that doesn't.
But you only live once, so make mistakes and learn from them. That's how I learn best.
Since you gave me a genuine and thoughtful response, viva, I will respond to you.
As stated, I currently live with a female and have actively avoided becoming intimate with her, even though the opportunity was almost certainly there. I honestly really wanted to on some level also, but I did not for all of the obvious reasons.
I stated in my OP I'm sexually attracted to my prospective roommate, so I've already admitted that. Of course I'd like to nail her. Just like married guys would like to nail their cute coworker or that hot barista who gives them coffee every morning. Just because you have those desires doesn't mean you're going to act on them. Actually living with the female compounds things, but things can be done to minimize the risk (such as having no physical contact).
I'm in full agreement that establishing a decent roommate relationship is priority 1, followed by better understanding the person and having a platonic friendship. No way in hell would I jump in the sack with a new roommate before knowing them very well. That's like playing Russian roulette with only one empty chamber. I do think there's a possibility of having a nice arrangement where we bone when convenient and go on about our lives the rest of the time, though I think the probability of this is quite slim, so I am not really giving it much consideration.
I'm aware people present themselves best early on and become less perfect as time goes on. This is true with everyone though.
As for rent, she's just as capable of paying as any of the others I met with. That's not the issue. Like I said in my op, she is the best candidate I've conversed with so far independent of anyone's looks.
Right now I'm leaning heavily towards rooming with her as my other options aren't so great right now. If I do end up living with her, you'll almost surely hear about it as I frequently post on here about all aspects of my life.
a real outdoorsman wrote:
Im not insecure!!! You are the one that is insecure for saying I am insecure.
That of course is not me, but it does demonstrate the degree of immaturity of the posters on this thread.
Don't room with her for her sake since you call her "the female" and say you want to "nail her." major creepy factor
a real outdoorsman wrote:
you'll almost surely hear about it as I frequently post on here about all aspects of my life.
Yeah, we're hoping you cut that out. Confident people let others talk about them.
xenonscreams wrote:
Don't room with her for her sake since you call her "the female" and say you want to "nail her." major creepy factor
This^ The OP has creep written all over. I also think those who are buying into what he says probably don't have much experience with real relationships.
Actually any "hot female" not seeing this is in for a very bad roommate experience.
a real outdoorsman wrote:
Grow up ::: wrote:OP it sounds like you're the only one on this thread who's ever been with a woman, so just ignore what everyone else has said, and make your own choices.
That's basically what I gathered, which is why I stopped posting.
^ OP talking to himself
This guy is obviously trolling and enjoying playing out his fantasy on line. He didn't tell us why his current female roommate (who wanted to be intimate with him but he declined) will be leaving the apartment.
TAA wrote:
a real outdoorsman wrote:That's basically what I gathered, which is why I stopped posting.
^ OP talking to himself
Actually I believe that this is exactly spot on, and even the first line you deleted where grow up calls everyone a retard sounds just like the OP.
I think you were so accurate that we will not hear from he OP again (unless he uses a different handle)