you're a moron wrote:
oosk wrote:Being sexually attracted to someone doesn't mean you are degrading them. Some of you are idiots.
yeah, that explains all the strict rules about professional ethical conduct between employer/employee, boss/subordinate, etc.
No need to be professional or ethical if you're sexually attracted to someone.
These rules do not cover thoughts or attraction.
Once again for you all to understand.
Sexual attractiveness is human nature. Deal with it.
Talking about it with other coaches is stupid and irresponsible.
If they were to go farther than "just joking around" is even worse.
Who can't stop someone from thinking someone else is hott but again it was dumb them to be discussing it out loud.
What was so offensive was the one was saying something about his size seven diamond cutter? Then the other laughed and something about nine inches of throbbing fury??? Then they started associating this with title niner. It was so surreal, I did not feel empowered at all.
At what point in our society did we learn to handle problems by posting anonymously on public forums? Another bad situation, handled worse.
Millennials... wrote:
At what point in our society did we learn to handle problems by posting anonymously on public forums? Another bad situation, handled worse.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
Stupid millennials. OP Should've gone straight to the AD instead of wasting her time on here.
Get rid of creepy rapey coaches right before the season starts! I guarantee the AD won't be any help. Talk to student services to ensure something is done about this.
Looking for attention rather than results
ADHD wrote:
Looking for attention rather than results
Ding Ding... We have a winner!
Whistle Blower wrote:
I overheard two of our coaches at practice talking about some of the girls on our team they would hook up with. They were very explicit in their convo.
Should I bring it up with the AD or keep quiet? This is college btw.
Slip an anonymous note to the AD. Leave it vague. Don't name the coaches/team. Let the AD know you overheard some coaches having a very detailed sexually explicit conversation about female student-athletes in a common area. Tell the ad to have sexual harassment sensitivity training for all department staff.
Harvard?
Post Hole Digger wrote:
I'm a tenured professor but if I heard that conversation and did not report it, I could be fired immediately. Of course it would take someone else reporting it and knowing that I heard it and did nothing, but it's a big deal. We had to go through sexual harassment training and they were very specific about such situations.
Don't know how it applies to coaches and to students overhearing, but they are treading on thin ice to be talking that way. I suspect they could be fired for just saying it whether or not they directly harassed the girls.
^ THANK YOU.
(You other posters are so clueless about supervisors and their roles. Do you think there are no rules or limitations in life?)
DKCCC wrote:
That's disturbing. Talk to the person who deals with Title IX at your school first, see what they think (maybe just mention that they're employees and don't bring up coaches).
Definitely this, without providing any identifying info, getting advice on this from people with more experience is certainly a good idea
Coach Jerry Sandusky was not guilty of this, yet he's in prison.
Go Penn State,(
Seriously guy? You do realize that men talk that way, too bad your ears are so sensitive.
Snitches wind up in ditches.
Coach said his runner is a "porker" but. PC kid said he heard "pork her."
He could get a job as a reporter for "Rolling Stone.
Sure is disturbing considering the two coaches are female
private speech is all of a sudden a public concern when there is no relation whatsoever to actions?
Jim Houx wrote:
Seriously guy? You do realize that men talk that way, too bad your ears are so sensitive.
Wrong, coaches should never talk this way.
Some are saying it's ok as long as nobody hears it. Wrong again!! Are you kidding me. The coach is in his 50's. To him they are kids. The other coach is too young to be a coach if he is talking about his athletes like that.
It's disgraceful. Yes, it is human to be attracted to the opposite sex but there is a line you have to adhere to as a coach, professor, boss, etc.
It doesn't matter if the athlete is attracted to the coach either. That does not mak it appropriate in any way for the coach to comment, make advances, etc. toward the athlete. It's scary that people don't understand the difference.
jjjjjj wrote:
private speech is all of a sudden a public concern when there is no relation whatsoever to actions?
It's a public concern when these coaches are having their dirty convo while watching girls on the team DURING PRACTICE. Not in the privacy of their home, not at a bar, not away from the team. While they watch the girls they coach at PRACTICE. Ewwwww
lets start a list of coaches who are now married to former athletes!
We have:
Henner of Gtown
Wetmore someone mentioned