Just get on Tinder. It's a magical thing. Assuming you go to a school with >10000 students you should have no problem finding girls on there.
Just get on Tinder. It's a magical thing. Assuming you go to a school with >10000 students you should have no problem finding girls on there.
Frustrated College Student wrote:
People say that I struggle with women because I have "no game." "No game" my ass. I'm going to a good school, on track with lucrative degree that I'm passionate about. I work. I lift. I play in a band. I groom myself well. I'm a nice guy but not a pushover. I'm sociable. And guess what? I'm 20 and I haven't kissed a girl. Women have been conditioned from birth by the media with bullshit TV shows and pop idols to think that they're all special princesses who deserve a Brad Pitt or a Zac Efron... and they won't settle for anything less. Certainly not someone below 5,10 like me. Oh no no. Throughout high school and college, they ride the carousel of jocks and hot trailer trash, and when they're 30, they decide to settle down with some rich guy who cheats on them. And now, with feminism—because ignoring the bottom 90% of men wasn't enough— they now have an arsenal of shaming tactics to beat down on men with and add salt to our wounds. It is almost as if men are supposed to be ashamed of themselves for even wanting to meet someone in the first place. I applaud the men who find Russian brides for seeing through AMERICAN WOMENS' nonsense and getting out while they can. The more men glorify women and get down on their knees for them, the more this situation will be exacerbated.
I don't get it either - I mean you've checked all the boxes...
Frustrated College Student wrote:
People say that I struggle with women because I have "no game." "No game" my ass. I'm going to a good school, on track with lucrative degree that I'm passionate about. I work. I lift. I play in a band. I groom myself well. I'm a nice guy but not a pushover. I'm sociable. And guess what? I'm 20 and I haven't kissed a girl. Women have been conditioned from birth by the media with bullshit TV shows and pop idols to think that they're all special princesses who deserve a Brad Pitt or a Zac Efron... and they won't settle for anything less. Certainly not someone below 5,10 like me. Oh no no. Throughout high school and college, they ride the carousel of jocks and hot trailer trash, and when they're 30, they decide to settle down with some rich guy who cheats on them. And now, with feminism—because ignoring the bottom 90% of men wasn't enough— they now have an arsenal of shaming tactics to beat down on men with and add salt to our wounds. It is almost as if men are supposed to be ashamed of themselves for even wanting to meet someone in the first place. I applaud the men who find Russian brides for seeing through AMERICAN WOMENS' nonsense and getting out while they can. The more men glorify women and get down on their knees for them, the more this situation will be exacerbated.
Eerily similar to this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQUW3Km01BMWho the hell has time for 30 10 minute conversations a week?
mellow seeds wrote:
Who the hell has time for 30 10 minute conversations a week?
Someone who wants to meet people and do stuff with those people. (Not just sex BTW)
runDirtyrun wrote:
mellow seeds wrote:Who the hell has time for 30 10 minute conversations a week?
Someone who wants to meet people and do stuff with those people. (Not just sex BTW)
I am also going to say something that I know a lot of you are thinking.
Who the heck wants to hang out with or talk with women without sex? Seriously?
Anyone who doesn't have a girlfriend or wife has time to have 30 ten minute conversations.
Remember, the problem is that jamin (and I bet the OP) don't actually know plenty of women that they would go out with if they weren't taken.
Both jamin and the OP easily spend 600 minutes a week on here trolling. If they had lives that kept them busy, then they wouldn't have problems finding women.
Bro. But. You don't know their story. You don't deserve them at their best. You don't know what they've been through , what their struggles are
Tl;dr
Everyone needs a story so that they can act entitled to special treatment and sympathy because. You guessed it. You don't know their story. Bro.
Frustrated College Student wrote:
People say that I struggle with women because I have "no game." "No game" my ass. I'm going to a good school, on track with lucrative degree that I'm passionate about. I work. I lift. I play in a band. I groom myself well. I'm a nice guy but not a pushover. I'm sociable. And guess what? I'm 20 and I haven't kissed a girl.
It's never occurred to you that you just might be an a-hole, has it?
There is nothing wrong with women, you just have a HUGE chip on your shoulder and that comes across. I doubt you have any game, other than anger. Get over yourself. Women like a nice guy who treats them with respect, listens to what they say, actually likes them, and is not concerned with the trappings of image. Of all of the athletes that I know from college, they all had girlfriends because they learned how to get to know women and find the right one for them. You my friend are not what women want. Please change or shut up
Seems like this one struck a nerve in some y'all.
OP- sounds like you're not on enough roids. Gotta get those roids going. Pre-workout. Post-workout. Hell, during your workout. Pop pills all day. You'll be prying the bitties off your knob in no time! Also, grow a couple inches. That's probably the second best option.
I really like Jess's insight. Kudos! To get women, you have to put yourself out there. Step out of your comfort zone and try new things. You may have an impressive life resume, so to speak, but the most important things to possess are confidence and a sense of humor. Those 2 things will get you far.
OP, I don't think anyone's said that you sound like Elliot Rodger yet. You sound like Eliot Rodger.
Star wrote:
No. You don't have game.
It's just the ability to talk to women and having confidence.
You don't have it.
Get it.
Exactly. All this bullshit about lifting weights and being in a band. Total BS.
I'm about 5-6 in looks at best, but never had trouble with attracting women. Why? Because I'm funny and I'm good at talking to them. Youre looking in he wrong place for answers
Well There U Have It wrote:
runDirtyrun wrote:Someone who wants to meet people and do stuff with those people. (Not just sex BTW)
I am also going to say something that I know a lot of you are thinking.
Who the heck wants to hang out with or talk with women without sex? Seriously?
It's pretty useful for learning how to talk with women, and perhaps you might learn something.
girllygirly wrote:
There is nothing wrong with women, you just have a HUGE chip on your shoulder and that comes across. I doubt you have any game, other than anger. Get over yourself. Women like a nice guy who treats them with respect, listens to what they say, actually likes them, and is not concerned with the trappings of image. Of all of the athletes that I know from college, they all had girlfriends because they learned how to get to know women and find the right one for them. You my friend are not what women want. Please change or shut up
Exactly.
runDirtyrun wrote:
mellow seeds wrote:Who the hell has time for 30 10 minute conversations a week?
Someone who wants to meet people and do stuff with those people. (Not just sex BTW)
I just don't know how you find time in your day to do that. Unless you count co-workers, I just don't know how someone would have the time to have 30 10 minute conversations a week. Not only would you need to have that much time, but finding 30 people who also have 10 minutes to engage with you seems difficult, even if you were charming, good looking ect.
And this is coming from someone who used to put ALOT of effort into picking up women, getting laid, ect.
These things happen with work or with luck. The OP refuses to put ANY effort into women. If you won't put any effort into doing something right, you have to make up for that by creating a huge number of chances.
Lost my connection.
So the point is that if you create enough chances, you don't have to work/risk anything on any of them. Eventually, things will just work out.