People underestimate how complex and difficult love is. To get to the simplicity of wholesomeness and goodness--was it ever easier? I'll just say that it is certainly hard to come by in today's era. If you want to have a fairytale romance that lasts, you have to defeat Hook. You can't run away from the challenges of the world. Social competition is vicious. Mr. Gentleman who saves the princess has to have a stiff pimp hand. It sounds terrible but that's what I've come to learn. ...
And a lot of Christians marching to the altar haven't done their homework either.
Know yourself, know your enemy and your victory is never in danger.
Therefore you can count on divorce as being the norm in the system tending towards free movement and entropy.
In a culture with too much distraction, multimedia, job and success pressure, gossip and confusion... And not enough meditation.
Even for the smartest, most motivated, most physically fit among us who have seen, heard and thought about true love, these challenges remain true and formidable.
How much more so for those who are simply "dating," "sort of in-love" and trying to settle down?
Piety counts but a lot of church going Christians fall in the latter category.
Some also don't have the wisdom that comes with battle scars and mistakes.
And some--secular and religious--have had scars that make them disillusioned and forget the name of love and piety.
Maybe
The more I have, the less I know.
Maybe someday this will be figured out.
You can bet people have been struggling with these issues for a hundred generations...