Jamin's Dad wrote:
But it is lower on the totem pole. The guys who play football are the king in school and they're treated as such by boys and girls. ANYONE can run cross country. You could be a fatso and run.
This is the inescapable truth.
Now there are lots of untalented kids who make the football team and never see the field, but they get to wear jerseys on game days and say they are football players.
I was a football/track guy in HS. I loved track, and I loved being a football player. I think if the notoriety had been reversed I wouldn't have played more than a year or two of HS football. Instead, it took 'til my sophomore season of college football to realize I really didn't like playing - or at least enough to keep doing it.
I also played in an era where most of us were multi-sport athletes, so for about half of us on the football team, the XC guys were our teammates from track. They did on-campus dual meets for XC then, and we would stop football practice to cheer for the XC guys during the Varsity race.
With my XC teams, we would address the issue head on and say "If you want the attention that football players get, you need to play football".
In its place, we tried to create our own system of affirmation. We would send results directly to teachers (sometimes with video) and they would often honor kids in class and show the videos. Within the team, we'd honor PR's and big year to year improvements, with the top senior athletes leading the honors for the younger athletes.
We would also do team things that football didn't get to do. We had a Mammoth training camp and would travel overnight to a meet in both XC and track seasons.
And we won way more than football did. That didn't help much, and in fact, the administration seemed to resent that we were having greater success than the "main" sport.
One other thing we did in track (but not XC) that raised the profile of our team - we made cuts. Kids will value something others are excluded from.
Among the coaches, we would constantly remind ourselves to never internalize the second (third?) tier status that XC. We when we trained and raced, we tried to communicate to our athletes that this was the most important thing we could be doing.
These days, fewer football players participate in track, so that team connection doesn't happen as much as it did. But I'd also suggest that changes in XC culture have affected this.
Over the ten years I've been around, I've heard more and more XC/distance coaches talk about track season as something you get through, and that the real season is XC. The diversity of a track team is a burden rather than and opportunity, with XC coach and kids anxious to get back to "our kind of people" in the Fall.
This is a minor thing, but it's one that we can control.
Oh, and teenagers care a lot about what people think. So, um, yeah...