I got into a rather interesting debate today with some fellow runners about what effect (positive or negative)being in a relationship, dateing in general, or having a significant other will have on their running/racing/training. Some felt that when they are single they have more time on their hands to train and therefore run better. Some felt that they even had an almost instinctual urge to run faster to impress more people (i.e. to get a date). (This I found rather pathetic, but possible for some people with low self esteem) Others thought that when they were in a relationship their life was much more in order and they were able to focus on things that are important to them much more (the significant other, training, family, work, etc.), instead of getting easily distracted by being single and constantly on the lookout. I know some will try and pervert their answers in some way, but we all felt it was an interesting topic that warranted a debate.