Epidemic of attractive 30-somethings getting cheated on by their husbands

Provide the professions, religions, social status, and other details for the cheating husbands, and I can make an accurate assessment. Too vague at this point.

Don't get it wrote:

but I'd like to think that if I ever walked into my office and found a hot, 19-year old sprawled naked on my desk

I lost focus after that line.

Just look at Tiger Woods. You can't get much hotter than his ex. There's an old saying, "for every super hot chick, there is some guy who's sick of f@cking her."

Monogamy is a choice, it's not part of our genetic makeup. For most the benefits of marriage outweigh that of cheating, but not all guys think with the right head.

tigerw wrote:

"for every super hot chick, there is some guy who's sick of f@cking her."

"No matter how hot she is, no matter how perfect you think she is, somewhere there's some guy who is sick of her sh!t." That's how I heard it. Any way you slice it, it's the truth. Look at Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel. There is no way in hell that man should have EVER left that woman unless she is batsh!t crazy. She's been divorced like 4 times now. All by men who were out of her looks league.

Always remember:

For every beautiful woman you see, somewhere, there is a man tired of her bullsh_t.

Looks and skill in the sack don't necessarily correlate. Even if a someone is good looking and skilled, 10 years of routine can get old.

Behold, the creation of the cougar/desperate house wife.

Do you think those guys are all banging single women

Don't get me wrong. I understand the reasons why 23-year old strange might be enticing. What I don't understand is the decision making process. Does anyone think Tiger Woods wouldn't take it all back if he could? Banging all of those waitresses and skanks cost him $100 million and his golf game hasn't been the same. Plus, most guys don't have a Lindsey Vonn waiting in the wings.

My argument is that if these guys just thought about what they were doing and what 15 minutes of strange would "cost" them they probably would be happy with what they have.

Never forget.....

For every 10 out of 10 girl out there......there is some bro who is tired of dealing with her dumb a$$.

To the fella who said women after 30 aren't that sexual, you'd be mistaken. Women are most sexual in their 30's.

When I was 25, I dated a 32 year old woman. Her and her friends referred to it as their "dirty 30's". She was a freak (as in sexually) and so were her friends

Most women have some emotional issues (there are exceptions) and that tends to wear out men. That and the thought of strange. Strange is awesome until it becomes familiar. Then you need new strange again.

I totally disagree with this. My wife has gotten much better/more adventuresome over time. That's one reason I have no problem ignoring the flirtations of my college students.

If you are actually intellectually curious about this (which I kind of doubt because you don't seem to have given it all that much thought...if you had you would have come up with some reasons), I suggest reading "Sex at Dawn."

I just want to bring up one thing that hasn't been touched on yet in this thread: please keep in mind, for every smokin' hot babe prancing around all giggety, there's some dude who is now spending thousands of dollars and man hours on maintenance phase only, and is now ready to interview new talent.

They cheated AND GOT CAUGHT... perhaps they wanted to get caught so that a divorce would be a no-brainer for their (ex)wives. Think about it... you want a divorce, your wife doesn't. If you don't cheat you have to go through all the counselling bullshit and in the end you still have to give her everything, but only now everything is less and you are older.

Holy Toledo wrote:

To the fella who said women after 30 aren't that sexual, you'd be mistaken. Women are most sexual in their 30's.

When I was 25, I dated a 32 year old woman. Her and her friends referred to it as their "dirty 30's". She was a freak (as in sexually) and so were her friends

Most women have some emotional issues (there are exceptions) and that tends to wear out men. That and the thought of strange. Strange is awesome until it becomes familiar. Then you need new strange again.

This ^. Anyone that believes women 30+ are not sexual is a living fool, moron, idiot. Generally, women aren't sexual untl they hit 30. And believe me, as HT says, they can be absolute fvck freaks.

Been There, Done That wrote:

Holy Toledo wrote:

To the fella who said women after 30 aren't that sexual, you'd be mistaken. Women are most sexual in their 30's.

When I was 25, I dated a 32 year old woman. Her and her friends referred to it as their "dirty 30's". She was a freak (as in sexually) and so were her friends

Most women have some emotional issues (there are exceptions) and that tends to wear out men. That and the thought of strange. Strange is awesome until it becomes familiar. Then you need new strange again.

This ^. Anyone that believes women 30+ are not sexual is a living fool, moron, idiot. Generally, women aren't sexual untl they hit 30. And believe me, as HT says, they can be absolute fvck freaks.

I agree, as this has been my experience as well. Once I hit my mid 20's, I was getting attention from early 20's chicks, as well as those in their 30's. The girls in their 30's were DTF at all times of the day, any day.

Don't get it wrote:

What I don't get is the cost/benefit analysis of the decision to cheat on an attractive and fit woman who you have been married to for at least 10 years and have kids with. Is scoring some 23-yr old tail worth the shame of divorce, the financial distress, and having to tell your kids that you are a cheating a-hole? Do these 40-year old guys really think they'll do better on the dating scene than what they had at home?

No one thinks they will get caught, so your cost benefit analysis is skewed. To them, the cost is zero and the benefit is hooking up with a hottie.

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To them, the cost is zero and the benefit is hooking up with a hottie.

And that, I can never, ever turn down.