I live in upstate NY about where NY/NJ/PA meet up so Atlantic City is a decent trip.
One idea I have is to just refuse to watch the kids this weekend. She wants to drop them off on Friday and leave them with me until maybe Tuesday. We really dont follow our joint custody agreement but technically the kids are her responsibility from 12pm Saturdays to about 5pm Wednesdays. She has no family of her own here to babysit. So if I just disappear and she cant leave the kids with me, she would be forced to cancel the trip or to take the kids with her which should severely compromise the weekend on her.
So, could something like this be brought up in family court? I have a really good track record when it comes to watching the kids more than I'm required to, especially when she dumps them off when she wants to go out.
Any other ideas from the letsrun faithful?