Dating a bad kisser - what to do?

Honesty. Tell her, if you think aside from kissing that she is worth it.

I can suggest a better use for that kind of suction.

Refer to post nuptial shutoff thread.

If she is kissing like that, she wants more. Grab a boob next time, see what happens.

Sounds hot.

slackerdom wrote:

If she is kissing like that, she wants more. Grab a boob next time, see what happens.

Well, here is a detail I left out. A few times during the making out, my hands were making advances... that just kind of happens when you start getting the signals like I was getting. The weird thing was each time, I was firmly rejected, as she took her hands and moved mine back into my own space. So, not only is she sucking my face off, but I was not allowed to get touchy-feely.

Call her on that. Ask what she wants.

Mr. Tactful wrote:

slackerdom wrote:

If she is kissing like that, she wants more. Grab a boob next time, see what happens.

Well, here is a detail I left out. A few times during the making out, my hands were making advances... that just kind of happens when you start getting the signals like I was getting. The weird thing was each time, I was firmly rejected, as she took her hands and moved mine back into my own space. So, not only is she sucking my face off, but I was not allowed to get touchy-feely.

do yourself a favor and spare the blue balls in advance. just cut her off.

Mr. Tactful wrote:

Seriously, any suggestions??

stop dating girls who are in jr. high?

midwaste wrote:

stop dating girls who are in jr. high?

Horrible advice.

Mr. Tactful wrote:

Alright, so not exactly "dating" her yet, but we had a first date, and we were making out toward the end, and it was like kissing Hannibal Lecter - sort of frightening. She was practically sucking my lips off. At one point, I think the lower part of my face was in her mouth. I have never experienced anything like that in all my days of kissing.

Sounds like you are the bad kisser if you have never experienced anything like that.

Push in lightly on his adam`s apple when you are kissing. That usually gets them to lighten up a bit.

She is playing with you and hoping to repulse you with her crazy kissing antics!

You are the joke wrote:

She is playing with you and hoping to repulse you with her crazy kissing antics!

It might be working. I don't know if I can date someone who tries to fit my entire face in her mouth every time we make out.

well then stick something else in there!

come on son!

sure you can wrote:

Refer to post nuptial shutoff thread.

While using a Power Point presentation of course.

midwaste wrote:

Mr. Tactful wrote:

Seriously, any suggestions??

stop dating girls who are in jr. high?

I get older, they stay the same age!

Back in the day, I dated the PERFECT guy....respectful, great job, sweet, funny....but he was a horrible kisser! He was a press his lips firmly against mine kind of guy, yuck. I was very young and broke it off. Several years later I ran into him again and went out with him. I was wondering why I had stopped seeing him the firt time until he kissed me again...and then aha! I remembered. If you like this girl, see if you can teach her how to kiss better. If you don't, you will either be grossed out or break up with her.

And that guy is STILL single 30 years later.

I think I told my husband by the the second or third date that his kisses were a little too sloppy for me - they've been perfect ever since!