Found a condom, the girl or the guy?

-6/10

Yes, you are pathetic.

Pics?

well you gotta go through her to find out who the guy is right?

btw, just end it now, once a cheater, always a cheater. take it from someone who found out the hard way.

btw- you should F them both up. But if you had to pick one its her, depending on the situation he might not have even known, or he did and she was the one who made the decision to cheat.

Lighten up. Nowadays having safe sex w/another guy the day of the wedding is equivalent to being a virgin at the altar. Just make sure to get paternity testing on any of your kids.

Could be that one of her friends brought some dude around to get laid.

maybe she was using them with her vibrator... but still, you gotta get yours son.

Go buy a gun now, there is likely a waiting period, so you should have this all figured out by the time you get it.

Never stay with a girl who wants to wait until marriage. Trust me, it's a bad idea. You'll finally break up with her after 18 months of her bullshit and she'll be f***ing another guy in 2 weeks.

Pooty Tang wrote:

Never stay with a girl who wants to wait until marriage. Trust me, it's a bad idea. You'll finally break up with her after 18 months of her bullshit and she'll be f***ing another guy in 2 weeks.

i could be wrong, but i thought couples that waited until marriage a)had happier marriages and b) stayed married longer/less divorce likelyhood?

or maybe i was thinking of the cohabitation statistics...

Find the guy, for sure, because that'll be so much easier than getting pissed at her.

Sex with a condom is technically not sex.

The situation is that The Situation gets whatever girl he wants and it's no use going looking for the situation because The Situation is long gone. You can't really blame the girl, either, because the situation is that The Situation gets whatever girl he wants and it's really not her fault the situation that she finds herself in thanks to The Situation.

LOL!!

Pissed wrote:

I've been dating this girl for a year and the whole time she claims she wants to WAIT for marriage to f**k, but this afternoon i went to her apartment to get my bag. On her bedroom floor i found 2 condom wrappers. She lives a lone so i can't blame a roommate, so it's gotta be her. What the h*ll do i do? get pissed at her or find the guy?

this is ridiculous, i'm f*cking pathetic.

Easy. Just say "Hey, I found these in your place when I went to pick up my bag, so I presume you no longer want to wait until marriage. I brought a dozen more with me. When do you want to start?"

If your f***ing pathetic and she's f***ing someone else, doesn't that cancel out?

someonestolemyname wrote:

i could be wrong, but i thought couples that waited until marriage a)had happier marriages and b) stayed married longer/less divorce likelyhood?

or maybe i was thinking of the cohabitation statistics...

I don't know anything about waiting as a predictor for longer happier marriages, but cohabitation is DEFINITELY not correlated with either of those characteristics. Cohabitation before marriage is, statistically, a nail in the coffin for a long term relationship. Researchers have suggested that people who live together expect marriage to change what is, essentially, already a married living situation, and when each side is let down, communication breaks down into emotional arguments and the whole thing goes to hell. Couples who cohabit but had minimal expectation of change after the marriage experienced more normal rates of divorce. I read a few papers on this for a family/marital psychology course back in one of my senior seminars in undergrad.

IllinoisMaster wrote:

Easy. Just say "Hey, I found these in your place when I went to pick up my bag, so I presume you no longer want to wait until marriage. I brought a dozen more with me. When do you want to start?"

Best post of the thread.

Try it on, maybe it was for you. If the condom fits, then you must aquit.