I quit my college team last spring and am running on my own this year. I have a full indoor and outdoor schedule or races and have been preparing for it all on my own. However, everyone I talk to asks me if I'm running at my school, and I say that I'm running, just not for the team. They act as if I just said that I hate running and am sitting on my ass instead. Even some of my close friends don't seem to understand that it IS possible to train without being on a team. I don't understand it. I understand why many runners lose the motivation to train seriously when not on a team, but people act as if it's the be all end all of running.
I went home and ran the local turkey trot. I wasn't in racing shape or anything, but I expected to run decent. I ran with several other college runners and a HS state champ who is probably top 40 in the nation, and I won. None of them were in peak condition or anything, but nor was I. When I told one of my friends about the race, she said, "Oh, well they must not have been running hard." This really shouldn't bother me, but it kind of did. It's like even if I'm running well, better than ever before, people think less of me because I'm not running for a school. I don't really understand it, but whatever.
Kind of just had to rant since it seems like no one understands.