First date with a girl who lives in my dorm?

smokinJoe wrote:

Some more advice for you...

First of all Rat, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, Rat. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

Did that advice come in a time machine?

njmatt wrote:

Did that advice come in a time machine?

Fast Times at Ridgemont High, dumbass.

"Well alright I think your all set so just go clean the pipes and it's a go"

"Huh?"

"You know, clean the pipes"

"What do you mean, clean the pipes?"

"You choke the chicken before any big date, don't you? Tell me you spank the monkey before any big date. Oh my God, he doesn't flog the dolphin before a big date! Are you crazy? That's like going out there with a loaded gun!"

Never, never mess with a girl in your own building....

Unless you're moving out next week.

Three words to get any woman in the mood:

Fall. Out. Boy.

mr sandman wrote:

I'll probably just try some hanging out and the movie, if she agrees to that she is obviously interested. If that goes well, maybe a date at a future time but I think a "date" wouldn't be good now.

Classic. Man, I can't believe the some of the things I used to think.

Question for you Romeo: what's the difference between "some hanging out and a movie" and every other day in your dorm? I don't think you said what year you are but if you're a freshman that's just standard operating procedure for any time during the day you two are both awake and not in class.

What you need is some activity that is low pressure, but also clearly date-ish, like bowling, shooting pool, going to a party, whatever. It should be very obvious that you are potentially interested in her; "some hanging out and a movie" sends very mixed messages.

Good luck, though, dude.

First of all, move out of the dorm. Why would she want to hang out in your dorm room when she has her own? Plus it can get weird if you live in the same building and break up.

The only reason no one dates in college is because guys don't take girls on dates anymore. They have completely lost the ability to court a woman properly. Women love it when a guy has actually planned out an evening of entertainment for her.

Terminator X wrote:

njmatt wrote:

Did that advice come in a time machine?

Fast Times at Ridgemont High, dumbass.

So basically...yes

Meet me at Village Inn wrote:

Three words to get any woman in the mood:

Fall. Out. Boy.

So I'm guessing you go after the high school girls a lot?

Does All. America. Rejects. help you too?

Wurmser wrote:

I have found that "no anal" is a good first date rule to follow religiously.

Best post in the thread.

I'm a freshman and also there is pratically no off-housing campus for anyone so nearly all the students stay on campus for 4 years.

I have found that just saying, "Yo, Baby, When we gonna kick it?" Works EVERY time!!

A nother idea--

Take her camping in the laundry room.

That will make her hot for you.

The main thing is to always go on a date with the right girls who already know what you want! I often meet with these

beauties.

anEconomist wrote:

are you a freshman?

nobody goes out on dates in college... go to a party with her, both of you will have a few drinks... it it is right you will 'hook up'

take it from there

at the most, say -

i'm headed to this so and so party on friday night, interested in going with me?

Whatever you do... DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS ADVICE. You are likely a skinny runner loser (evidenced by the fact you’re on letsrun). If you go to a party she’s ditching you for a Frat boy.

Go mini golfing. Seems appropriate for your level of game.

anEconomist wrote:

I repeat who the hell 'dates' in college... more than anything a girl at my college would have thought it weird to be asked out on an official date

well considering that it's coming from a member of the least sexed generation in modern history.......i would go ahead and flush this advice down the toilet.

This is fine if you're looking for a "relationship" with this girl. But seriously, if you're just looking for fun and hooking up,...do NOT follow this advice. If you're interested in hooking up, just be yourself and DON'T SPEND MORE THAN $20 on dinner. Seriously.

If you can't stand listening to her, get the hell out of there, because it'll get worse. Don't introduce her to your friends unless she makes it past a few actual dates and you won't be embarrassed when you end up breaking up. Oh - you WILL break up. Remember that. Always have an exit strategy at your young age. Don't do the drama thing. Just don't accept it.

If there's drama in anything she's talking about (and you're listening) run for the hills. Drama queens are way too much work.

Terminator X wrote:

Fast Times at Ridgemont High, dumba$$.

QOD.