Has anyone ever noticed a difference in dating older women compared to younger women?
I think I like the older women. I'm not talking super old like a "cougar" but women who are in the range of 5-8 years older then myself.
Older athletic women seem to take care of themselves better and sometimes even look younger than the ones who are my age. The older ones know what they want and don't play games either.
No less a visionary than Benjamin Franklin once advised a young lad that he was better off with older women because they don't tell, don't swell, and are grateful as hell!
The single "older" athletic and fit women (at least a majority of the ones I see) are 10 times hotter then most of the younger chics. Dating and hanging out with them is more fun because they are independent with real jobs. The younger chics just tend to leech off you. Younger chics just want a sugar daddy and want to have kids and get married.
The single "older" athletic and fit women (at least a majority of the ones I see) are 10 times hotter then most of the younger chics. Dating and hanging out with them is more fun because they are independent with real jobs. The younger chics just tend to leech off you. Younger chics just want a sugar daddy and want to have kids and get married.
Actually, younger men have been attracted to older women for a long time, it's just that today these couples are not keeping it a secret anymore. Here is what some of these "younger men" have said about dating a woman 10 to 12 or more years older than them. Some young men are attracted to an older woman's maturity and the fact that older women seem more comfortable with themselves. Older women have lived more and are more established; they can take care of themselves and don't rely on a man to take care of them. Younger men are attracted to the fact that older women act more mature and seem to be less materialistic than younger women. Mature women don't mess with their heads and play mind games with them, acting coy and shy one minuet, the next minuet mouthing off and being bossy, showing her true self.
With mature women, these young men know right were they stand because she will be up front with her young man, telling him what she's looking for and what she wants. Mature women don't want to waste their time or his by playing games. She is ready to have some fun with someone who shares the same interests as she does. She wants to know if he wants to be with her or not and if he doesn't, then she's going to move on and find someone who does, if he is embarrassed about the age difference, she's not going to waste her time. She has been around the block, and would rather be alone than with someone who is ashamed for the two of them to be seen together because of age.
Society thinks sex is the only reason a younger man will want to go out with an older woman and society is only half right if that. It's the idea of woman peaking sexually in their 30s and 40s. Sure, younger men enjoy the experience the older woman can bring into a relationship. They enjoy having a partner that is not so inhibited during sex by saying what they like and want. Mature women today are taking better care of their bodies and are looking better too. So, even though a woman in her 40s doesn't have the body of a 20 year old, their younger boyfriends say that her experience well makes up for anything else she may be missing.
For the most part, younger men find older women more interesting and fun to talk to. They find that their older girlfriends are more experimental and eager to try new things and to go to different places. Whatever the reasons may be, younger men are dating older women because they want to. There isn't any one reason for younger men dating older women. It could be a combination of many reasons. Maybe trying to put an explanation to it is a waste of time. Men and women are getting together and dating, when two people get together and find out they both have a lot in common and they like being together, why should they let a little thing like age break them up? Life is hard enough as it is, when two people find happiness with each other, who's business is it anyway? Age should have nothing to do with two people being happy.
I've dated a few women who were about 20 years older than me. They just seemed a lot more settled and secure and still kept themselves looking really good.
I've dated a few women who were about 20 years older than me. They just seemed a lot more settled and secure and still kept themselves looking really good.
Jesus F. Christ. If dated a women 20 years older than me, she'd literally be a corpse!!!
The single "older" athletic and fit women (at least a majority of the ones I see) are 10 times hotter then most of the younger chics. Dating and hanging out with them is more fun because they are independent with real jobs. The younger chics just tend to leech off you. Younger chics just want a sugar daddy and want to have kids and get married.
Well I do agree that the younger women are looking for a sugar daddy type of deal. They see dates and expect/shame the man into having to pay for all. Their female peers encourage this exploitative behavior. They see dates as free meals type of thing but many do have a base level attraction tolerance for their date. Again, this is the younger women.
I'm currently in fact talking to one who bragged to me about quitting her job then immediately asked me for money. How pathetic is that? Um, maybe try working for your money. I've ghosted her since.
From personal experience of dating someone 12 years older than myself (I'm 32M), it's enjoyable as hell. You've got nothing to lose by trying, if you've dated women your own age/younger and haven't found success in it then you may as well try something new.