Me and my ex just broke up and we dated a little over a year what is the best way to get over.
Me and my ex just broke up and we dated a little over a year what is the best way to get over.
rail a rando
Nail another one and then dump her.
Alcohol.
My strategy has always been this:
1. Run. Run with disdain for pace, distance, or route until you've clubbed all of the emotion out yourself and you've spent so much of yourself that there's no strength left to cling to anyone else. I'm sure you've felt this way during bouts of especially tough training--like you've left whomever it was that was dating your girlfriend behind, prostrate on the track with cracked, bloody lips and empty eyes and when she asks what's wrong you can hardly bring yourself to offer up an excuse because you've spent too much of yourself to even care. It's time to run like that again. Leave the lovesick kid behind somewhere on a long run.
2. Talk to other girls. I've always felt that flirting with other girls helps but actually sleeping with them just makes it worse. Something about chatting them up reminds you that there are so many opportunities, whereas hooking up inevitably leads you to think about being intimate with the one that you really cared about.
3. Don't talk to your ex. You need a major cooling off period before you'll be able to handle it.
The above poster is RIGHT ON. Works for guys AND girls.
800 dude was right on. And if you see your ex in a couple of weeks and she trys to be nice, be a gentleman, and say hello if she says hello, and then keep moving. If she says she wants to talk, say, "sure, but I can't right now, call me" Keep moving forward
Get under someone new.
Train intelligently > Breakthrough > Pr's > Self Esteem > Ex Girlfriend who?
Just remember that she's the one missing out. You don't need her, but she definitely blew it with you.
yup wrote:
Just remember that she's the one missing out. You don't need her, but she definitely blew it with you.
Actually the original post gives off a distinct "I'm an insecure tool" vibe. I think she may have made the right decision.
actually the original post means he cared about her.
no way to get it over any faster, but keeping yourself busy is the best thing to do. hang out with friends, run, clean, read letsrun etc.
what if i already railed a rando or two, realized it hurt, and now am out of ideas?
WOW. I didn't think it was possible to get good advice on here, but it's been done.
Pal, just do what 800 dude writes and you will be just fine.
Plow her most obnoxious female friend.
IDIOTS!
Every one of you who has said, "plow another broad" really needs to grow up. Have you even had sex with women before? How old are you? Sixteen? Geez...
What you really need to do is call her back, beg for the relationship, get on your hands and knees to start over. After a month and bending over backwards for her set up a romantic night with rose petals going to the stairs, candles everwhere, the door slightly cracked... and a bucket of syrup on the top. Also, make sure to be b*lls deep in her best friend while you are give her the middle finger as she comes in the door. Then you do the money shot and say f*ck you broad and walk out the front door after you dress. Make sure to stab her tire on the way out.
That's the way to do it.
Or, you could listen to that 800 runner dude. He's probibly the most correct one out there.
it's obviously a tough call between 800m dude and mr.price....
Get a b******
book19 wrote:
Me and my ex just broke up and we dated a little over a year what is the best way to get over.
Keep looking forward and moving on pal. Time is the healer, you'll soon get over it and meet someone new and then you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.
get out with friends, do some stuff, meet some people and enjoy yourself. No point looking back, push on, push on.
a boy