I am surprised this debate is still going on. I saw xlr8r's post and thought "Great another - 'Everyone is different...Listen to your body...Do what is comfortable' post." The same type of rationale people use when saying they only need to run 40 miles a week to be a world class marathoner. Everyone loves the idea of being an outlier. Seeing Jack Daniels reponse gave me hope that people would see the light, we would all say thanks, and proceed to be smarter and faster runners.
The problem with people "doing what is comfortable" is that they don't necessarily know what is good for them. You ever look at your typical recreational jogger? A lot of them look really comfortable with awful form and even worse PRs. Unfortunately, bad habits are easy to learn and quickly become something that is comfortable.
In Daniels' Running Formula (and correct me if I am recalling it incorrectly), but I believe you measured stride frequency of a bunch of runners at the 1984 Olympics. They all were around 180. And you already referenced the threadmill test you did with the runner at various speeds.
To the person with a stride frequency at 160, there are two possible scenarios, you are a big time outlier or your stride frequency is too slow. I'm guessing the later. When I had been running for a couple of years, I was annoyed with having no leg speed. I wondered if I took shorter strides (therefore increasing frequency) on my normal runs that my racing and legspeed would benefit. At first it felt a bit awkward as I was more comfortable before. However, it ended up paying off a lot and soon became what I was comfortable with. I have passed this along to others who had similar issues and they also benefited.
Stride frequency, posture, and arm swing end up being questions of your overall running form. Running Times had an interesting article a couple months ago highlighting Sammy Kipketer's running form. In this latest issue, a runner wrote in saying he starting following the advice to run like Sammy. It was evidently already paying him dividends. Although he was 42 and a "life-long runner" he had spent those years running inefficiently and his performance suffered.