My husband and I have been married for 19 years in July, and lead a happy, busy life.
Our relationship was good when he was a 3:30 marathoner.
Since those early days hes jumped milage from 30 to 90mpw.
Sex now is a distant memory, him suffering erectile dysfunction for some years.
Yes, Im aware high mileage training, particularly endurance-based activities like running, can potentially reduce libido, especially in men. This is often attributed to chronic fatigue, energy expenditure trade-offs, and hormonal adaptations related to intense exercise training.
Twice now, however, I have come home earlier than expected. He is a bit deaf and didn’t hear me come in, but I could see he was watching pornography on his computer. I backed out of the room and then made a loud “hello noise” both times, so he doesn’t know I know.
I am appalled by this! Do I say anything to him?
