Would you judge a woman for not working and letting a man take care of her instead? (No kids involved).

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2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 3:07am EDT

Here's the hypothetical scenario: adult man and adult woman are in a relationship together. Man works and makes good money. Woman is able-bodied and able-minded, but she chooses to not work at all and is 100% financially dependent on her bf/husband/whatever since she is not pulling any income at all. There are no kids, so she's not a stay at home mom or anything. She just doesn't work at all.

Would you judge a woman like that? Or does it reflect negatively on her? Does it reflect negatively on the guy? What do you think?

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 3:18am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

What else does she do?

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 6:24am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

If someone had been willing to support me I never would have worked either.

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 6:44am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

Who am I to judge? Guy/Gal can lead their own lives.

Now, would I be with them...most likely no. I would want to be involved with someone with ambition/motivation beyond waking up. Of course, there are a thousand counters to this ie, getting degree, volunteering, some other personal goal, etc. that could excuse just "staying home"

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 7:28am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

Not sure what to think wrote:
Here's the hypothetical scenario: adult man and adult woman are in a relationship together. Man works and makes good money. Woman is able-bodied and able-minded, but she chooses to not work at all and is 100% financially dependent on her bf/husband/whatever since she is not pulling any income at all. There are no kids, so she's not a stay at home mom or anything. She just doesn't work at all.
Would you judge a woman like that? Or does it reflect negatively on her? Does it reflect negatively on the guy? What do you think?

Yes, many guys here just want a main piece to come home to most nights. Compared to celibacy, your offer seems better. What does she cost for upkeep?

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 7:40am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

Women like that will jump ship as soon as they find greener pastures. I'd just feel sorry for the rube who fell for her trick.

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 7:48am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

Not sure what to think wrote:
Here's the hypothetical scenario: adult man and adult woman are in a relationship together. Man works and makes good money. Woman is able-bodied and able-minded, but she chooses to not work at all and is 100% financially dependent on her bf/husband/whatever since she is not pulling any income at all. There are no kids, so she's not a stay at home mom or anything. She just doesn't work at all.
Would you judge a woman like that? Or does it reflect negatively on her? Does it reflect negatively on the guy? What do you think?

Same as I wouldn't "judge" a man for doing the same (and there are plenty of men doing this where I live as well as women).

I'd be more likely to judge the partner paying for it. Personally I can be a little suspicous of very unequal relationships, because there might be manipulation, control, abuse or even people trafficking going on. If thats not the case, then who cares?

2 weeks ago 04/29/2024 7:54am EDT

re: 58w]-u9sp'ikl

I’d be more likely to judge someone for caring about being judged.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 2:26am EDT

re: poosmacker

poosmacker wrote:
Women like that will jump ship as soon as they find greener pastures. I'd just feel sorry for the rube who fell for her trick.

That's kind of how I feel I think... I know two people like this, and I view the guy as a major sucker and beta and think it's only a matter of time before he gets burned. But it's not my place to say anything.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 8:35am EDT

re: poosmacker

poosmacker wrote:
Women like that will jump ship as soon as they find greener pastures. I'd just feel sorry for the rube who fell for her trick.

This is a strange case to make. A woman who is a working professional you’d think is more likely to jump ship as worst comes to worst, she can support herself, but a woman dependent on her man has to think twice about whether the new guy will support her into old age.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 8:52am EDT

re: Ha fh gf dad ha d

Ha fh gf dad ha d wrote:
What else does she do?

Sex, cooking, cleaning, pleasant companionship. Probably all the things historically expected of women, that women stopped doing when they started selling themselves to men other than her husband. Boss gets all her best hours, husband is just there to help her keep going to her real man, her boss.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 9:11am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

To each his own. It is a little odd that she doesn't do anything, like even have a part time job or volunteer, but there is something to be said of having one person take care of the house, and all the day to day dealings of running the household, while one person just hammers away at the job.

If she takes care of all the house stuff and sexes him up adequately, that's not a bad deal. She has big risk too, once she's not super hot (and honestly even if she is, guys get tired of the same piece of tail) he can easily replace her with a newer version any time he wants.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 9:13am EDT

re: Not sure what to think

Generally, I only see this type of relationship when the provider wants some control over the benefactor.

2 weeks ago 04/30/2024 2:32pm EDT

re: ClubRunnah

ClubRunnah wrote:
To each his own. It is a little odd that she doesn't do anything, like even have a part time job or volunteer, but there is something to be said of having one person take care of the house, and all the day to day dealings of running the household, while one person just hammers away at the job.
If she takes care of all the house stuff and sexes him up adequately, that's not a bad deal. She has big risk too, once she's not super hot (and honestly even if she is, guys get tired of the same piece of tail) he can easily replace her with a newer version any time he wants.

Even if the woman is super hot and provides lots of sex or whatever, it still seems odd to me as the woman is essentially communicating to the world that she has no skills or anything to offer the world outside of being a sex doll. It seems kind of shameful to me.

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