Recently applied to a job. They want to interview me next week. My grandmother literally just died, and the funeral is the same day as one of their options, and I will be traveling the entire day of the second day they provided as an option. Really, I **could** make it work, but I know I'd be very mentally distracted if I interviewed either of those days... Should I reply back and be honest about my situation and ask to interview a couple days later? I don't want to seem difficult or like I don't want the job. This is just not good timing...
Tell them the truth: that your grandmother just died and that you will be traveling for the funeral. If they are unwilling to re-schedule, then that should tell you a lot about the company. (And why would you want to work for them if that were the case?)
(As an aside, I'm sorry about your grandmother. I hope you have happy memories. Honoring her by attending her funeral is more important than an interview.)
Recently applied to a job. They want to interview me next week. My grandmother literally just died, and the funeral is the same day as one of their options, and I will be traveling the entire day of the second day they provided as an option. Really, I **could** make it work, but I know I'd be very mentally distracted if I interviewed either of those days... Should I reply back and be honest about my situation and ask to interview a couple days later? I don't want to seem difficult or like I don't want the job. This is just not good timing...
here's the thing about interviewing, if they interview with a committee, there are a lot of strings to pull to get everybody in one room at the same time. this is why all the interviews are done within a brief time period. they may be kind to you, or even give you a fake interview without all the pieces there, but it could cost you a real shot at the job. and that doesn't necessarily make them bad people.
i would talk to them and make it clear you would prefer to do it on another day, but be able to make myself available if that was the only option.
DO NOT tell them the truth. Make up any lie at all:
- dog ate your brake lines
- you’re dealing with a massive hangover
- you need to go to an exotic bird convention that day
If they even suspect that your grandmother died, that job is as good as the next guy’s. Trust me on this one, all the other posters must be trolling. They WILL NOT understand
Recently applied to a job. They want to interview me next week. My grandmother literally just died, and the funeral is the same day as one of their options, and I will be traveling the entire day of the second day they provided as an option. Really, I **could** make it work, but I know I'd be very mentally distracted if I interviewed either of those days... Should I reply back and be honest about my situation and ask to interview a couple days later? I don't want to seem difficult or like I don't want the job. This is just not good timing...
I would just be honest and tell them your grandma died and you afe unavailablw those days due to funeral travel etc. Any company worth working for will accommodate you. They will find other days
some of you guys live in a fantasy land. there is a good chance they will be able to accommodate, but they might not be able to, depending on several different factors. and they still might be worth working for.
i don't know where these bizarre black and white notions of real life come from.
It depends on the job and your situation. If they are specifically targeting you, then they will reschedule. If you're 1 of 100 college students attending their corporate hiring day, then you probably have to find a way to make it work or you'll miss out. If its a 1 of a kind dream job with lots of applicants, make it work. If it's one of 10 postings that you responded to this week then just tell them your situation and only do it if they are flexible.
Recently applied to a job. They want to interview me next week. My grandmother literally just died, and the funeral is the same day as one of their options, and I will be traveling the entire day of the second day they provided as an option. Really, I **could** make it work, but I know I'd be very mentally distracted if I interviewed either of those days... Should I reply back and be honest about my situation and ask to interview a couple days later? I don't want to seem difficult or like I don't want the job. This is just not good timing...
Grandmothers usually die literally, not figuratively, unless you meant you posted on LR literally immediately after she died.