Leaving my gf for someone else... How to let her down gently?

You don't have to let her down gently. Tell her "I don't want a relationship anymore" and then leave her. There is no easy way out of this so you might as well just get to the point.

"I am gay."

She will understand.

Shag and tell

Be a man - tell her in person. Deal with it.

Don't sleep with the other girl before you end things with your girlfriend. Not only dies having multiple sexual partners tie in with sociopathy, it's a health risk and you'll trash your reputation when she tells everyone what you did.

When you end with your new girlfriend for another chick, do the same thing.

Tell her simply then move on. Do not make it difficult for her by maintaining contact to “try and be friends.” Give her freedom to mourn and then find another man without you in the picture.

Send her a break up text asap. Her life will be better off.

How did you manage to fall in love with someone else while in a committed relationship?

I don’t think she’s going to be very disappointed. Tell her and let her get on with her life. Probably will find some jacked non-runner in a week to take your spot

Three important rules for breaking up
Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear-jerking scene
If you want to date other people say so
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time,
And haven't been too serious
There's still a feeling of rejection when someone says
She preferres the company of others to your exclusive company
But if you're honest, and direct
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you break the news
The boy will respect you for your frankness
And honestly he'll apeciate the kind of straightfoward manner in which you told him your decision
Unless he's a real jerk or a crybaby you will remain friends

0/10 End of thread.

Sorry, it has to be said….

POWERPOINT

You dont need to tell her about other girl (thats usually implied). Just say things aren't working out and you want to go separate ways in the relationship.

Also, VERY strong chance she is not that dissapointed. If you guys had a truly great relationship you wouldn't be looking at dating other women so intently like you are.

Women these days can hop on a dating app and having hundreds of messages from thirsty males in less than 2 hours of posting photos. She will move on (and probably be getting railed out within 24 hours of you breaking up with her). She probably wont even remember you by the next week (srs). most pretty women have many suitors constantly in the mix by the way (she probably gets texted/dm'd alll the time).

It's not about letting her down gently. It's about telling her honestly.

To let her down gently, break up on a plush mattress.

so i'm leaving you

Never heard this. Sick beat

The reality: the romance and hot sex are over and you need a change.

Trust me, that too shall change soon enough.