Dating opportunities for straight men are diminishing as ‘healthy relationship standards increase’

Dwightarm wrote:

Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:

The idea is the lock down a virgin, or least experienced, best looking, youngest legal girl you can. A man gains experience, a woman gains mileage/baggage/damage. Otherwise, you're competing for the used leftovers.

Lolllll this is hilarious !
Most grown ass men I know are the damaged ones (incl myself in this) And that whole ‘virgin ideal’ is some funny ass Victorian stuff right here.

Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:

Durban wrote:

You stayed with the first girl you met when you were a teenager. Good for you but let's not pretend you employed any strategy to this 😂

No, I was in my twenties, she was younger, the way it is supposed to work. The idea is the lock down a virgin, or least experienced, best looking, youngest legal girl you can. A man gains experience, a woman gains mileage/baggage/damage. Otherwise, you're competing for the used leftovers.

LsdGrl wrote:

Dwightarm wrote:

Lolllll this is hilarious !
Most grown ass men I know are the damaged ones (incl myself in this) And that whole ‘virgin ideal’ is some funny ass Victorian stuff right here.

The one guy I met who thought this was mentally ill, held some really bizarre old-fashioned views

Mike Hock wrote:

Weird thread.

In the Uk it's an unwritten rule you bang at least 20 girls before even considering settling.

Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:

LsdGrl wrote:

The one guy I met who thought this was mentally ill, held some really bizarre old-fashioned views

Every guy feels this way, but only a few will admit to it, because they don't want to spoil their chances at their turn with the looser women.

LsdGrl wrote:

Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:

Every guy feels this way, but only a few will admit to it, because they don't want to spoil their chances at their turn with the looser women.

Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing

LsdGrl wrote:

Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing

Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:

LsdGrl wrote:

Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing

That's just one guy. Now imagine large entitled groups of angry women, so large they influence public polics and education, trying to lecture men into being aroused by obese/ugly/old women. Now, imagine a couple thousand of that one guy you know, putting on a male version of a Slut Walk, strutting around in just tighty whities with signs saying "This is what real men look like," and "Don't Rape Me Women!"

LsdGrl wrote:

You can choose by not sticking it in

brackish wrote:

It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.

Let\'s tell it like it is wrote:

Armstronglivs wrote:

They obviously had more looks, charm and talent than most of the incels here.

I don't why you're so critical of the incel problem. There's a very concerning growing number of sexless young men with many of them already into their 30s! And not all of them are two-bit bums living in their parent's basement playing video games all day:

Video:youtu.be/UcnYsc1aNOc

Avery wrote:

brackish wrote:

It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.

Perhaps you have the wrong standards. They might be good lovers, kind and gentle people. Sounds like you have little experience with women.

Avery wrote:

brackish wrote:

It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.

Perhaps you have the wrong standards. They might be good lovers, kind and gentle people. Sounds like you have little experience with women.

Avery wrote:

Taking Orders wrote:

If the mall is not the appropriate social setting to accept courting gestures, what is, in your view, a more relevant setting to strike up a conversation?

Most women would consider it an insult that a strange man approached them at a mall expecting to initiate an intimate relationship. Unless they are professionals.

There are in fact numerous dating sites to which women go in order to meet men. Or taverns. Or through friends. Perhaps you never get invited to parties. In fact I bet that's likely.